Right, so im in need of some mediation help!
H2B and my self were planning on getting married Nov 2010 and our local reg office is pretty busy so we are in need to book it relatively soon.
However, his parents are off travelling around the world (lucky them!) and are only coming back dec 2009 and august 2010 then are off for a year and back aug 2011. We have discussed our dated with them and they are unwilling to change their travelling time and have said they will have nothing more to do with us is we dont get married aug 2010. Which in itself got me a bit angry.
They are back for two weeks in aug 2010 and have said they will contribte financially if we do as they wont, slight problem, the fortnight they are back already has 2 wedding in it, both my cousins, one each week.
Should we put our wedding off til they get back aug 2011, with would mean all my planning is wasted, or book the date we want and explain that it is our big day and as much as we would like them to be involved, we have to put our happiness first?
Argh, need all you experienced brides and wedding planners help!
Thanks for any response