Hi All
I have posted a couple of times, but haven't introduced myself, so thought I should!
I'm Claire and have recently decided to get married next April to my partner of 8 years and with my 2 little girls as bridesmaids. The grooms family all live in Yorkshire and may be reluctant travellers. We think we'll have a party up there for those that can't travel but want to encourage as many as possible to come.
I'm in a bit of a rush (5 months and counting) to get stuff sorted and have loads of questions (so please bear with me).
Today's question is about numbers:
1. are you supposed to choose the venue and date first before you invite people, in which case you won't find out for a while who might be coming? Or do you poll everyone first before choosing a venue and providing estimates to them?
2. Is there a general rule of thumb for how many are likely to accept? Half of mine are coming from Yorkshire
3. How do you ask people politely if they are likely to attend
Thanks very much
Claire