Invites - what name to use

We used their names. It did feel odd sending one to my mum by name (and she whinged a bit) but I explained because the invite was from both of us, it wouldn't have been right to put mum. I guess Granny and and Aunt would be the same logic, but I guess you could go both ways with it.

Thanks x Relieved my mini panic attack there x

LOL My mum is still trying to get used to the idea of receiving an invitation to the wedding in the first place! LOL In her book, she is The Mother of The Bride so it goes without saying that she should be at the wedding, she doesn't need an invite! LOL (I explained that since we are hosting our own wedding this is just etiquette). In fact in both Norway and Romania, where I have family, the bridal party do not receive invitations as it is implicitly understood they will attend!

I'd go with names for a more formal wedding and maybe with "Gran" for a more casual affair!

Good luck! xxx

She has alzhiemers disease so I will probably use her real name as she is beginning to forget me ☹️ let alone remember I'm getting married, but she still has her sense of humour!

My parents knows they're getting an invite but writing their names will be strange x