Inviting Colleagues

Presumably the feelings are mutual so they wouldn't expect an invitation. Simply don't invite them. I haven't been able to invite everyone I'd like due to space restrictions, so there's no way I'd invite anyone I really couldn't stand.

Nah, just invite those you're close to and hang out with! The others wouldn't want to come anyway.

Any queries - just cite numbers as your excuse for not inviting them. Does it really matter if they don't like it if you don't invite them? You don't like them anyway, so their opinion shouldn't matter ?

H2B has invited 2 that he gets on with while I’ve invited all of mine.

There are only 8 of us in total in my office so I don’t mind them being there. I would say invite whoever you want to invite as it is your wedding, although I know sometimes it’s easier to invite people you don’t want there.

In my eyes I see if that if there’s someone I don’t get on with they are evening people only and we have 150 people at night so there’s a high chance I wouldn’t see them, although it may be different if you have a smaller wedding.

(i wouldn’t obviously only invite them if they are connected to someone I do like i.e. partner ect)

We didn't invite everyone (similar numbers to you) didn't see the point in inviting people we didn't want there! It won't matter, you don't like them anyway!

I didn't do work colleagues, I thought if I left I wouldn't see them again so I wasent away to spend money on them, invite who you like, don't bother about the ones you dislike x

There's about 30 in ours (works out to about 50 with partners) and wev been brutal about it, it's our day and I don't want to spend it with people I don't like/don't like me, I'm not sure if everyone would expect an invite out of politeness but wev just avoided flaunting the wedding talk in front of people and if anyone asks wel just say we have to keep the numbers down, and also were not having seperate evening guests so some people will also need to work so that helps us. Just do whatever you feel comfortable with/will regret the least

Thanks Everyone