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Missus Jolly
Beginner October 2004

Is it just me?

Missus Jolly, 3 July, 2009 at 10:51 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 5

I am having a fantastic time arranging a charity do. Not. It has brought out the worst in people that I previously thought were okay. A couple of weeks ago it was my neighbour eyeing my Husband up about making comments about how pasty and dumpy I was. This weeks meeting brought a couple more corkers.

We are a week away from the date and last night one of the committee pipes up that she didn't realise there would be a 'pay' bar. She then went on into a tirade about how tacky pay bars were etc etc. And how it embarrassing it would be to inform her guests. I wouldn't mind, but we are not organising a High Society Ball. The tickets are £12.50, and we have a live band and a DJ. 100% of ticket sales are going straight to Cancer research UK. I cannot believe that she thought that we were chucking in booze as well. She then wanted to know what the DJ would be playing as she would like 'some African Music' (she isn't African).

The discussion did not get any better when my MIL then piped up that the worst thing in the world was weddings with pay bars, and how 'cheap and nastry' such weddings were. I reminded her that our wedding was a 'pay' bar in the evening (might not have been had Mr J and I had any parental contribution, but there you go). She has every right to hold that view but I think that it was a little crass to air it with me sitting next to her.

I am going to have to drink A LOT of alcohol to get through the event aren't I ?

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Latest activity by whirlwind666, 4 July, 2009 at 00:09
  • Daffy B
    Daffy B ·
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    I often find it's unbelievable how unreasonable and idiotic people can get when they're organising things like this. I personally try and steer well clear of such things OR organise everything on my own and become a super bossy boots who commands other people to do things rather than discuss, neither of which are good positions to be in! That group sounds particularly nightmarish though, I think you'll need a lot of alcohol!

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    Headless Lois ·
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    Charity events are usually pay bars aren't they? Unless they're for veeeeeery rich people and the tickets are hundreds?

    These people are nuts and a bit evil, ignore them.

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  • Knownowt
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    She sounds like an idiot. How on earth can a £12.50 charity event have a free bar? Even if she's against pay bars at weddings etc, a fundraising event is completely different- you either need to charge more than anyone could possibly drink (eg £200 a ticket) or have a pay bar. If her friends were expecting free drinks all night for £12.50, they must be half-witted.

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  • Crookshanks
    Beginner September 2007
    Crookshanks ·
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    Lots and lots of alcohol indeed! ?

    FWIW, I've organised charity events and not once can I remember the pay/free bar issue rearing its' head. It's always been a pay bar and actually on the last couple occasions, we've put money boxes for the charity on the bar for loose change from drinks orders, which does add up to quite a bit by the end of the evening. Probably being a bit cheeky, but there you go.

    Oooh and good luck, hope you raise lots for Cancer Research UK!

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  • Hyacinth
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    WKN Said! the whole ticket price would only cover three drinks each. what apleb.

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  • whirlwind666
    Beginner November 2009
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    What planet is she on? £12:50 and a free bar? I don't think so! You should definitely enjoy some nice LARGE drinks if she is around!

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