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Beginner August 2008

Is it normal........

hayley darby, 21 June, 2008 at 22:58 Posted on Planning 0 6

Hi All,

Just wondered if it it is/ I am normal .....is anyone else sort of panicing about just about everything???

I get married in 6 weeks and 6 days time and now i'm like are the rings gonna fit....is the photographer gonna turn up etc....Am i just being paranoid....please tell me I am.....lol.

It feels like no one sort of understands....

A very stressed Hayley.

xxx

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Latest activity by daisybrown, 22 June, 2008 at 08:36
  • pink alien
    Beginner May 2008
    pink alien ·
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    Nope you're totally normal!! Have you been having bad wedding dreams to?! I had loads!!!

    Make sure you take some time out with your H2B to do non wedding stuff and remind youself of why you are doing it and whats important.

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    Beginner June 2008
    Iriahm ·
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    Big hugs hon i'm EXACTLY the same! in fact i've got spots coming out with the stress!

    just relax over the weekend - recommend a few glasses of wine and then call everyone on Monday. they won't mind and will be used to B2B's calling checking everything is ok.

    my wedding is on Saturday and i'm now worried as i've been picking those stoopid spots i'll get in trouble from my make up artist!!!

    i find writing lists therapeutic and helped me realise i've done all i can

    Ixx

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    Beginner August 2008
    hayley darby ·
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    thanks for the ugs....lol

    h2b works nights 12 hour shifts so don't really see a lot of each other...well not as much as we like until it's his weekend off then we have to do the wedding bits...yeah had a few strange dreams about wedding but that was weeks ago....and i know what you mean about the spots issue...lol.

    it doesn't help that i only moved 3 weeks ago and also decorating...well trying to so that sort of takes my mind off things for a while.

    i'm just panicing i think that everything is gonna be the way we want it.

    extra good luck for saturday.

    hayley

    xxx

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    Beginner September 2008
    Sharique42 ·
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    I still have 3 months to go & am getting more nervous by the day! I am also very emotional the last couple of days, as soon as I start thinking about certain bits of the day I just start crying, which is not normal for me? I am glad I'm not alone in my worries. I think it's a mixture of wanting to have all your dreams come true & after all these months of planning, when it comes to fruition you want it to be right. I agree no one else seems to quite understand, but they have not put as much time & effort in as us?

    I have just started having 'dreams' & restless nights, I will look terrible if this goes on until the wedding.

    I agree with writing things down, once on paper in theory it's one less thing clogging up the brain!

    Good luck everyone, I'm sure we will all be fine & have the day of our dreams.

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    Beginner August 2008
    hayley darby ·
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    I have been writing things down , i suppose sometimes it does help but not always ...i have like a little diary / organiser thing.

    i suppose nobody else does put in as much effort as we b2b do but with having to get everything done and our selves it's like aaarrrrgggghhhh....lmao.

    Hayley

    xxx

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  • wonderstuff
    Beginner August 2009
    wonderstuff ·
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    We must being getting married on same day - 9th August?

    Anyway I'm calm at the moment because I feel everything is under control - panic will probably kick in the week before.

    I find rescue remedy helps.

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    Beginner June 2008
    daisybrown ·
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    Completely normal to panic! Bizarrely I got calmer as the day got nearer and was calm on the day (except for when my Mum came running in to say they had lost the groom - he was with the registrar!)

    Stick with your lists - double check the suppliers if you need to and most importantly relax and enjoy the run up.?

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