Bit of background..... my H has worked v hard to establish a great role in a company after losing his own business last year. I am v v proud of him and have no qualms with the hard work, evening work etc he puts in.
however, just recently, he has had lots of golf events, after work drinks, networking things, (all overnight jobs) and today has been last straw. He came back today at 2pm, flopped on sofa and said he just wanted to be left alone. our 2 year old wanted to clamber on daddy, daddy to give tea, bath etc. H said he had sore throat and was wiped out. I know it was a hangover. as it has been the last 4 times. I was so fed up as i had been in kitchen making dinner (a really nice one too cos we had had 2 nights apart and i wanted to make an effort for a nice night together), and when i came up; the little one had a dirty nappy and H hadnt changed it. I just tutted ( poss too passive aggressive, and siad, oh ok i;ll change the baby shall i) and he stormed off to bed, and said " i cant be doing with your moodiness, i am off to bed". this was at 7pm.
i have been sat stewing for a couple of hours thinking that his social life, albeit work, shouldnt impact on his family life? incidentally, i have been working 3 full days this week too, and have to do all the housework, but apparntely, if he is out playin golf, or on the p*ss with work it doesnt count as fun cos its work.
gah. i think i am most peed off cos even in the v unlikeyly event he does have a sore throat [hardly life threatening] and not a hangover, i never ever get a chance to be ill or have the luxury of poncing off to bed at 7pm.
