Is there any need for this?

Gobsmacking awful (and very childish) behaviour.

No-one, EVER has the right to do this. It is cowardly, unpleasant, un-called for and downright nasty.

Please look at it as the problem of whoever wrote this, definitely not yours.

No, no need at all, that's disgusting! And I am glad you reported it.

I do hope that you are OK ?.

Beez that's awful! I'm geniunely sitting here absolutely stunned that anyone would do that. There is no need whatsoever and I really hope you don't let it get to you ?

That's terrible. I know it's difficult but please try not to take it to heart. It will just be some loser who's life is so empty they need to resort to bullying to get their kicks. I won't quote, but what they wrote is quite frankly ridiculous and says a lot more about them than you.

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Exactly what AC said. My god.

That's disgusting. I am outraged on your behalf! No-one has a right to judge you or anyone else.

What a horrible horrible person. Complete lowlife.

That is horrible!

How on earth are you letting your kids down by wearing jeans???!! You're allowed to wear jeans just as much as the person who wrote that horrible note!!

Just some stupid immature person who hasn't got anything better to do than be horrible to people!

I think you should wear a mini skirt, just to do what they say this time...you just need to laugh at how pathetic they are!

should have done, or a pretty women style dress!

This is disgusting, from a adult, assuming parent (?) and am glad you reported it!!!!

Are you ok?

That is disgraceful, and says far more about the person who wrote it than you. I'm glad you informed the school. Are you ok?

? How bloody rude! Am fuming on your behalf - how dare they!? Sad, pathetic little person.

WTVF? Go in a mini skirt today. Please! Or maybe leather chaps with your arse hanging out. See what the little cnut has to say then. I'd spy on the car & pounce on the nasty piece of work.

How f'ing dare they!

I really am gobsmacked.

OMG!! That is unbelievable!! I was read this on my phone but logged in on laptop just to reply because it's THAT shocking!

Are you ok? I can't believe someone would think that, let alone write a hurtful note...I'd say it's more of a reflection of their sad, pathetic, bitter life than it is of you.

I like the idea of hiding someone in your car to jump out at them if they do it again

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That is appalling. Take absolutely no notice. They are obviously extremely insecure in themselves to pick on some else for "fun".

I can't believe someone did that to you! That is just disgusting, there are some incredibly vile people in this world.

This is their problem not yours, hope you catch who do it though and definitely wear that mini skirt

I thought this was going to be a note saying you'd parked poorly/across someone's drive and was going to have an element of sympathy with the author but those comments? Wooooah, completely unacceptable for all of the reasons the others have pointed out.

I'm gutted you had to deal with that sort of interaction but can I just say well done for dealing with it so bravely? It must have taken real guts not to be a sobbing mess on the floor. Your children are lucky to have such a strong mum. Well done on losing the 3 stone you mention, too. A brilliant achievement.

The grown up option is to ignore it. But I would leave a note in my windscreen - she will be interested to read it, assuming it to be a response.

Options:

So maybe I carry some extra grunt
At least I'm not a massive ****

I fear for your children.

Smile, you're on CCTV. EPIC FAIL.
(my favourite, she'll cack herself)

This is horrible & totally unnecesary! Was it an adults handwritting rather than a child/teenagers?

I would have told the school too, might be doing it to other parents.

this is my fave response!

Oh, My, God! There is no excuse for that sort of behaviour ever.

It's one thing to think to yourself 'that's not the most flattering outfit' another to decide they're an embarrassment to their family and pass judgement that they're too fat to wear jeans?! (incidentally, how can anyone be too fat to wear jeans??) and yet another to think all that and write it down and leave it anonymously on your car.

Disgusting and cowardly behaviour, I hope the school are able to get to the bottom of it. Well done you for reporting it. Stay strong and carry on Beez!

This!!!

Absolutely gobsmacked! How bl00dy dare they.

All I can say is, what a loser, who would do that?!

FTLOMB you made me laugh. I may have to use that as a FB status!

I believe it to be an adult. The writing is like a script.

And I have to say, you gotta love my H. When he first read it he assumed it was just about being jeans being inappropriate for school pick up attire ??

That's disgusting. Sounds like someone needs to write notes like that to feel better about themselves.

You did the right thing for reporting it too. I am so angry on your behalf Beez.

Also, by virtue of the fact you were in jeans you can't actually be too fat to wear them.

Unless you were coming out of them like this and then I think being green ought to be more of a concern to you.

That is shocking!

What a complete knob. I can't believe someone actually went to the effort to write it down. People talk about others behind their backs, but this just takes the pi$$! I don't see how what you wear is letting your kids down. If you were wearing a mini skirt, thigh high stilettos and bandeau top then that's one thing, but jeans? Really? Practically everyone in the whole wide world wears jeans regardless of size. Here are some things you should wear and see what their reaction is

Glad you're not letting them get to you.

WTVF? I can't believe anyone thought that was the right thing to do!

You'll always get people thinking nasty things about others I'm sure, but going as far as actually leaving you a snide little note is ridiculous. Like others have said, it says far more about them than it does about you! If it wasn't weight it would have been something else I'm sure.

I'd like to know just what makes THEM such a perfect parent!

I love those people of Walmart pics! In fact I have a new found respect for them.

I think I'd look cool as the hulk ? Cricks!

What an absolutely disgusting aste of oxygen that person must be, utter tosser!

Huge well done to you for being so mature about it, glad you reported it, as they may well have targeted others in the past who have been too upset to speak up.

How are you feeling?