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HatTrick
Beginner September 2010

Is this a good idea or not? (A bit gruesome)

HatTrick, 15 September, 2009 at 14:25 Posted on Planning 0 12

My nan had an accident a few months ago. She was hanging up a wind chime in her garden and unknowingly caught her wedding ring on the hook she was hanging it onto. When she stepped off the chair she was standing on her finger was caught and she ended up having it amputated. Therefore, she obviously can't wear a ring. They had to cut the ring off what was left of her finger.

My mom and nan have since suggested that I have the ring melted down and made into a new wedding ring for myself. At first I was totally grossed out by this idea but when i was round my nans the other day she showed me the ring and it just looked like an ordinary broken ring. And then I thought about the history of it and thought I would much rather have a ring which belonged to my nan than a new one with no story behind it.

Just not sure if it will jinx me and the same thing will happen to me lol

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Latest activity by debs1701, 18 September, 2009 at 12:57
  • *porsche*
    Beginner January 2001
    *porsche* ·
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    Personally I think it's a lovely idea, and I think you're nan would be honoured.

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    Beginner June 2010
    hkj ·
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    Your poor Nan! but i would love to have something that has got a family history and sentimental value.

    Go for it.

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  • HatTrick
    Beginner September 2010
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    Thanks for your views, I think i will go for it, might even start a family heirloom hehe

    She lives on her own and was so brave I don't know how she did it but she managed to go into the house and call an ambualnce, go upstairs shut all the windows and clean up the blood on the floor before the paramedics came bless her.

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    Isabel Smith Wedding Design ·
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    Well I'm not a believer in jinxes so I would say go for it - I think it would be lovely to have a sort of personalised heirloom to pass down

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  • Mrs S*
    Beginner January 2010
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    Moonpig, i'm sort of with you, yeah it would be nice to have one that means a lot to your nan, but it broke because of the finger, and that would gross me out too much i think! My dad chopped the end of his finger off a few years ago cutting the grass on the sit on tractor mower, and I still can't hold that hand! I got given a ring for my 21st which was my great nans who died before i was born, and i had to ask if she was wearing it when she died or not (i know this is really insensitive, but i can't handle things like that), I love the ring, but i wouldn't wear it if something bad happened while wearing it! Guess i'm just mental, ignore me, do what you like! x

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  • Saracroft251
    Beginner August 2010
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    Moonpig I think this is a lovely idea, go for it x

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  • Mitzi50
    Beginner June 2010
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    It would gross me out to start with but I do think its a lovely idea, and I think the 'grossness' will dissappear as soon as you see the ring all redone and new shiney and ill think you'll love it!

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  • Ms Nic
    Beginner May 2010
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    Wouldnt your nan like to have it fixed & wear it on the other hand? or another finger?

    If not then its very lovely of her & your very lucky...

    awwwwww Bless her!?

    Nx

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  • HatTrick
    Beginner September 2010
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    i think its put her off wearing rings fullstop lol she's even offered to pay to have it re-made, as well as buying my wedding dress. i have the best nanny EVER its official :-D

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    Beginner January 2008
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    I actually happen to think, besides the fact that it had to be ripped off a dead finger, that this is a good idea. It is personal and it is existing therefore in the family on and on. It has history. How many rings can say, that they are a piece of tragic family history. I guess this are just a few. So, do not hesitate and take this chance of earning a piece of history and adding it to your marriage. I think it is a brilliant and good idea.

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    I think it is a lovely idea, as it is your something old and like you say it could become an heirloom and there is a story with it as well. I dont think it is that gruesome really.

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  • jen52637
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    Ugggh, that story gave me the heebie jeebies! Your poor Nan!

    I know a guy who's a handyman and only has 7.5 fingers cos he keeps getting into accidents at work and chopping them off! I think after I'd lost two I might consider a career change but no, he's quite happy! ?

    Anyway, back to your question- I think it's a lovely idea! Years after my Mum's Dad died, his wedding ring was melted down and made into two rings, one for me and one for my sister and we loved wearing them! Just a pity they're too small now! I think that this is something that will become even more special to you once your Nan is no longer with you as you'll always have her spirit with you when you wear the ring. Go for it!

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  • debs1701
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    I think it's a lovely idea...could be your something "old/new"!

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