It just doesn't seem real

That's the way to be!

I just hope it rubs on me too! I think I am becoming a bit of a bridezilla, if only inside, if not on the outside. i feel frustrated that no one seems to "take seriously" my questions and chases etc. I refer to members of the wedding party. I keep chasing the girls to go try dresses on and boys to decide which shop they're gonna use for suits, I keep trying to get people to comit or not to certain tasks yet all i hear is "Ah, don't worry, love, bags of time!" I have 10 months left, Ok, fair enough, but certain things get booked and sorted for Xmas and with our wedding being the day before Xmas Eve I don't want surprises just because we left it til Sep-Oct when everyone's got there ahead of us...

So, I hope I can be as calm as you when i have 4 days left. Well done you and can't wait to see the pics and read the report! xxx

Good luck Tinks- hope it all goes well!

Don't complain about being calm ? I finish work on the Friday and get married on the Sunday- I'm gonna be a wreck.

Looking forward to your report ?

I'm the same Tinks, I'm actually worred about how unreal it feels.

The only stress i'm having at the moment is the flowers for the tables, i got some really nice artificial ones from sherrie but i'm not convinced at the moment, i think they need setting into the vases properly.

I've finished work now so at least that's one thing.

If you cut them down Grace they should just rest on the top of the vase. You could use some organza in the vase scrunched up & just put the Hydrangeas on the top.

I don't finish work til thurs, and get married on sun 27th. I don't think it will be real until friday when i take all the stuff to the venue and don't have work to distract me anymore.

I think i pretty much have everything sorted, just a few little things to do now. I wonder if i hjd more time off before sunday it would just give me time to get stressed and worried. Like you Tinks i'm slightly worried the stress will hit me soon. Although i did have a mini-meltdown on the sunday just gone so hopefully that got it out of my system! Lol.

good luck ladies

I think you thinking that you are calm is your way of panicking(?!), ahaha, but don't worry yourself if you aren't worried or in a panic. sit yourself down and run through everything that needs to be double checked, when no problem arises, congratulation! you are officially a brie and soon a Mrs.

*tear stained wedding napkin*

Maybe you feel like it because you have got everything organised? Hopefully all of us Brides will be feeling exactly the same when we are just a few days away! I hope you have a lovely day x