I've accedentially thrown away my note book with all my planning bits and bobs i write in. I had written some lovely poems 1 each for my parents and Oh's parent that i was going to put onto cards to be delivered to each of them on the morning of the wedding. Am gutted. It had got everything else that i think of in it too. A million web sites with suppliers etc on. I'm sure you all know what i mean. I feel as if ive lost my right arm I can't find it anywhere.