I'm having real trouble trying to decide what to do.
Here's the situation. My ER is white gold, as will my WR be. My bridesmaid's jewellery is going to be silver (with a green gem in it to match their dresses), and their shoes and handbags will also be silver.
I always, always wear silver or white gold - I have never been a yellow gold person. Nor is my H2B - his ring is rose gold!
So I always assumed I would wear a silver necklace/earring set, perhaps pearls, or diamonds. Nothing too flash, just a pendant and drop earrings.
However. My mother insists I wear her grandmother's necklace, as did my two sisters before me when they got married. It means an awful lot to her and I'm happy to oblige. Unfortunately, this necklace is a yellow gold pendant with a small garnet in the centre of the pendant. i.e. nothing in common with the rest of the jewellery that will be worn on the day, and if I'm honest, I really don't like it much! Nonetheless I will wear it because she wants me to and in all honesty it is not worth the pain and arguments that would ensue were I to refuse!
So...the issue I have is with what earrings to wear to match the necklace without letting the red of the garnet take over entirely. My first thought was to get some yellow gold and garnet earrings, perhaps with a little diamond in, like these:
But then I wondered if this was too much yellow gold (and too much garnet for that matter - the garnets in the necklace are so small as to be barely recognisable as being red!). Instead I wondered about a pair of earrings with both yellow and white gold - and maybe some diamonds or CZs - to try and reconcile the necklace with my white gold rings!
I really like the spiralling down of these earrings and was hoping to find something similar but with one spiral made of yellow gold and the other of white, maybe finishing in a garnet or just linking back together at the bottom with no stone at all.
However I can't find any kind of earring like that anywhere. Has anyone seen anything like that, or does anyone have any other ideas of what I should do for my earrings which will work both with a yellow gold garnet necklace and the white gold/silver colours of my rings and the BMs' jewellery?
Thank you in advance! ?
xx