I'm delighted with our togger; I really thought that because we can't afford to spend a lot on one (and I do literally mean can't; I'm making my own flowers, not having a car, no make up, no hair, etc., because I wanted as much money on the togger as possible) we would just end up with a crappy one, but after meeting him today I can say he is really so lovely, and I was pleasantly surprised that he said he even likes to stay longer than paid for if the day is going well because he enjoys his job so much!
Whipped a deposit down and now we have him booked! Venue deposit, togger deposit, the only two secure things I've done so far with 8 months to go...! Oops! Now waiting on invitation stamps to arrive so I can make those up too and send 'em out. Phew!