Just can't get excited :(

The bridesmaids and flower girl outfits can be sorted out in an afternoon in the shops. Possibly the same with gifts.

All depends what you decide to do for favors, I reckon that should be your focus now, after you decide what you're doing you'll know how much time and effort you need to allocate towards it.

Do you have plans for decorating the venue?

You've done loads! No idea why people were making you feel like you're not organised enough! I get married in less than 3 months and only sorted my BM dresses yesterday. Everyone goes at their own pace.

Just an extra couple of things for your to do list...RINGS and honeymoon if you're having one ?

Firstly don't worry you have plenty of time. You've booked the most important stuff and everything else you could do in one weekend if you had to.

Do you have ideas of what you want for BM dresses? If not I'd round up your bridesmaids and hit the highstreet one weekend, trail round John Lewis, Debenhams, Frasers etc and don't go home until you at least have a potential dress. Once you know roughly what you want it's easy to look online. If your bridesmaids are reliable I'd delegate as much as you can to them, let them get their own shoes etc. Flower girls look cute in pretty much anything so it will be quite easy, Monsoon had some gorgeous dresses last time I was in.

Favours and order of service can be done pretty last minute.

Only obvious thing I can see missing is rings, I'd sort these soon in case you have to order in your size.

It'll all be ok, anytime I think I'm disorganised I think of Don't Tell The Bride where they organise a wedding in 2 weeks and they always have a great day ?

Thank you all, oh yeah I forgot rings haha, we choose the ones we like just gotta buy them. Not having a honeymoon until the following year. Think it was just everyone's reaction to say ooo not long maybe I should be chuffed I don't have long left!

I am pretending to sort it out on the computer except I am watching EastEnders omnibus!

xxx

Good grief you are very well organised, nothing left that you couldn't do at the last minute if you didn't want to.

Sorry to hear your bad news too

Hello Date Twin!

You have got loads done in fact your list is almost identical to mine so don't panic!

Don't beat yourself up, you've been through a tough time and can't be excited all the time. Don't worry- you're doing fine! xxx

Hi There

Seriously you are definitely a head of the game when it comes to being organised. The great thing is you have done pretty much all the hard decision making so you can sit back a bit and make the most of planning the rest. Even give yourself a well earned rest for a few weeks. It’s not uncommon to get wedding fatigue especially when you have been through a difficult time. Those little butterflies will be back though especially as the time gets nearer. Have you thought about having a video. I noticed you didn't have it on your list. Take Care Hon.

Laura Berry

You sound very organised to me! If it helps, I get married in 12 days and haven't sorted favours! If you're worried about not being excited, maybe choose whatever is left to do that you're most excited about, even if it's something tiny and start with that, or something that's easy to get ticked off, and get yourself back into it. But there is NO rush!

I think you sound on track!!! You have plenty of time too. ?

Best Wishes,

Rebecca

You've done loads so don't worry. I get married on the 9th June and I've still got lots to do.

Bear in mind too that some of the suppliers may have been saying that you've not got much time left so you panic and book their services.

You've got plenty of time!