I've actually sort of solved this, but thought I would share and establish a small ranting place for any December brides closing in on their wedding/ OMs who want to share their wisdom with us!
So, you would think by this point that all the details largely being sorted, annoyances would be few and far between. But no, step forward the mother-in-law, to a round of applause for making me burst into tears on my way home last night. And on what had been a quite stressful day in work too, sod's law.
I had the temerity to suggest that I would ask guests to pay for their evening meal the night before the wedding, to which she responded that she would be insulted if she received such an invitation and "reminded" me that this is a wedding, not a conference... She then proceeded to insist on paying for the meal, making it a lavish production number to almost rival the day itself, and to lecture me on it being "the start of what should be a magical weekend" I mean, imagine my face. These are not far off - ? ?
Needless to say, I sent a polite email back explaining my reasoning, but she was having none of it. By this point, I'd got home, was exhausted, and just caved and allowed her to pay for the meal, as it is very kind of her to offer, but have made some insistances (if that's even a word) of my own to ensure that it doesn't completely overtake our plans for the wedding day.
It also emerges that she had a conversation at the weekend with OH about it, while I was at home for my fitting, so technically partly his fault for not telling me what she wanted to do - I think perhaps she felt I was throwing her generosity back in her face, but still, you don't tell the bride less than 3 weeks from her wedding that it sounds more like she's planning a conference. Not on!
So. With that off my chest, anyone else have any last minute interfering/ changes of plan/ little annoyances to share?