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Life Sucks - depressing story Final update

Lynseys Designs, 3 June, 2008 at 22:13

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I don't usually post sad stories but my h2b is away and I'm sat here in floods of tears. My aunt isn't well (terminal cancer only diagnosed 2 months ago) and my mum just got a call to say she is rapidly going downhill. So basically it's just a matter of time. Fucking life sucks that it can be so...

I don't usually post sad stories but my h2b is away and I'm sat here in floods of tears. My aunt isn't well (terminal cancer only diagnosed 2 months ago) and my mum just got a call to say she is rapidly going downhill. So basically it's just a matter of time. Fucking life sucks that it can be so cruel. She is only in her 50's has 2 kids and 4 grandchildren. My uncle has just went into remission for cancer himself so they were looking forward to retiring with the good news he was getting better and now life is being taken away from her.

I want to do something but there isn't anything I can do. To make matters worse I have tried to sort out a long standing family problem and just got that thrown back in my face.

Stuff planning a wedding cos I couldn't care less about that right now. Seems pointless stressing about one day when a life is being taken away.

Sorry for such a depressing story and no need to reply but I needed to vent before I explode.

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  • teeheeyoucrazyguys!
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    aww how did i miss this post originally?? big hugs to you and yours Lynsey......

    nona xxx

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  • wonderstuff
    Beginner August 2009
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    Sorry to hear your sad news ?

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  • Spamboule
    Beginner October 2008
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    So sorry to hear of your loss Lynsey

    x

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  • prettywild
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    Oh Lyndsey - I'm so sorry to hear this! Sending you all my best wishes and ?

    xxx

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    Super November 2008
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    So sorry to hear that.

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  • annandy2007
    Beginner November 2008
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    So sorry to hear your news...

    I know nothing we say will make it better but have some hugs anyhow...

    ?

    Ann-Marie x

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  • Roz
    Beginner June 2008
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    So sorry to hear your news.

    My thoughts are with you and your family?

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  • acidalia
    Beginner November 2009
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    So sorry sweetheart, I've nothing useful to say but my thoughts are with you and yours ? xx

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  • memedoaky
    Beginner September 2008
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    Hi Lyns

    Big hugs to you and your family

    RIP to your aunt. I know how you are feeling right now.

    We're all here for you.

    Luv always

    Victoria

    xxx

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  • nicky167
    Beginner September 2009
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    Im so sorry to hear of your aunts passing. big ? to you all.

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  • bluewater
    Beginner August 2009
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    so so sorry to hear this. you're in my thoughts.

    have a completely inadequate ?.

    x

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  • Burke 2 be
    Beginner October 2009
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    Im really sorry to hear your sad news , my thoughts are with you and your family

    kelly x x x

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  • scotlady101
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    Sorry to hear your sad news, my thought are with you and yours.

    E ?

    Remember Me To the living, I am gone. To the sorrowful, I will never return. To be angry, I was cheated. But to the happy, I am at peace. And to the faithful, I have never left. I can not be seen, but I can be heard. So as you touch upon a shore, gazing at a beautiful sea ... remember me.

    Remember in your heart, your thoughts, and your memories of the times we fought, the times we laughed ... for if you always think of me I will never have gone!

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  • English Girl in Bangkok
    Beginner August 2008
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    That brought a tear to my eye.

    Purrfect - I am thinking about you at this difficult time. I am a firm believer that your aunt is now at peace, but still with you and looking over you. I am certain my nan has given me little signs that she is still around. Take comfort from the fact she is looking down at you and probably hates to see you hurting so much.

    Take care x

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  • ashmegdj
    Beginner August 2009
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    Sorry to hear this Lynsey

    Thinking of you and your family at this sad time!!

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  • Duck no more
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    Big hugs , my thoughts are with you.

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  • Snow Patroller
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    I'm so sorry to read your news.

    Its always harder for those left behind. But your Aunt is never going to leave you totally - i never really believed in there being more to life than what we see here and now but I've had it proved unquestionably to me. I know it won't be much comfort to you right now, but just wanted to share.

    Mrs SP xx

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  • Bohemian Raspberry
    Beginner July 2009
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    Sorry for your loss Purrfect, I hopr your Aunt is at peace now ?

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  • twinks
    Beginner January 2009
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    I'm so sorry for your loss, and send a big ? for you and your family.

    My thoughts are with you

    jx

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  • Fenella Fudge
    Beginner June 2008
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    So sorry to read about your loss.

    I'll be thinking of you.

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  • crafty em
    Beginner June 2008
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    so sorry to read about your loss, thoughts are with you and your family, Em xx

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    Beginner December 2009
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    So sorry you are going through this difficult time.

    big hug!

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  • kath79
    Beginner November 2008
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    so sorry to hear of your loss.

    My thoughts are with you and your family....

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