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No we don't. We need to give you the biggest hug possible.

RK, I can't imagine what you're going through but you sound so incredibly strong. I think you have been incredible through everything so far.

It must be a very scary prospect at the moment and you have so much going on that your head must be in a spin. If at all possible try not to look too far ahead at the moment, take each day as it comes- you can only plan for so much.

Massive hugs and keep talking to your fellow otters. ?

What Mrs I said.

Sending you huge hugs RK. xxx

We absolutely do not need to tell you to stop wittering. What we need is to tell you to rant/scream/cry to us as much as you need to.

Your head will be all over the place at the minute - I can't even begin to imagine how confused you are from one moment to the next.

Please be kind to yourself - take more time from work if you need to. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks - just do what you need to do. xxx

I have no advice for you, apart from be kind to yourself and take each day as it comes and make sure you take as much support for yourself as is offered. You don't have to be strong all the time.

Huge hugs to you. x

I'm so sorry you are going through this RK. Please accept some totally inadequate hugs and the promise that we are all always here if you need to rant xxx

Huge hugs RK xxx

((hugs))

Nobody here will shake you, or tell you to stop wittering. Be "woe is me" all you like, we'll be here to listen, and offer virtual hugs.

Absolutely agree with the others, keep talking/rambling/ranting to us whenever you need to. Lots of hugs xx

Aw otters thank you so so much. I've had a cup of tea and am feeling a bit better. Decided to come to the hospice a bit early than normal and just do some chatting with mr RK. He's still able to have ssmall conversations so that's a massive bonus. You're all right about having so many emotions swimming round my head. The hospice is great with free counselling and I have been speaking to one of their team so might arrange another appointment. It's great to be able to reach out to you all and just go 'arghhhhh I am so sad'. Feel like I have a huge support team behind me :-)

Hugs x

Again I can only echo what the others have said. We are here for you to do exactly as Kharv said, scream, shout, cry whatever may help lift things for even the smallest amount of time x

You do! and definitely book in another counselling appointment.

RK I can only echo what the others have said, we are all here for you whenever you need us for a rant or cry or just for some light relief x

Throwing my hat into the being here for you ring. I cant imagine the pain of what you're going through so dont you beat yourself up over it either x

Oh RK ?

Lots of hugs. As others have said, we are all here whenever you need to talk, cry, or rant. x

? We're all here when you want to talk

My heart goes out to you, I can only imagine how hard this is. I am so sorry you have to go through this. Have a very inadequate hug and will cross everything for you. ?

I'm not really an otter as I don't spend much time over here but reading all this has just made me well up in the office.

Just wanted to give you a big hug ?

RK im so sorry you going through this. I can only echo what others have said don't be hard on yourself and try to take things one day at a time. Sending you a big inadequate hug. keep talking to us - we're all here to support you xx

And you need to keep doing it whenever you feel you need to. We're all here for you ?

I know I'm not a regular post on here but just wanted to say how incredibly strong you seem to be. Crying, screaming and letting it all out is only going to make you stronger still. Don't think for one second that you shouldn't let it all out because it is something which you absolutely must do so you can fix yourself up again to stand stronger still. Sending my love your way x

I have no advice to add to this, just wanted to give you a massive hug. This must be so difficult, I can't imagine how you are feeling, never feel like you shouldn't have a moan/seek advice/be upset, that's what we're here for x

I have nothing more to add but didn't want to read and not respond. Feel free to continue talking to us whenever you need to I can't begin to imagine what you're going through but we're all here for you.

Hugs and thoughts coming your way.

Red kite a huge hug for you. I can't imagine how you feel.

You are doing so well. It's not a situation anyone our age ever imagines they'll end up in, and I can't imagine how awful it must be for you to have to handle. Please never feel afraid to come on here and rant about anything at all.

I'm not sure where you are, but if you're anywhere in London and want some company for an evening or some food brought round or anything, I'm happy to help. I'm sure there are Otters all over the place who would also be happy to do the same.

Nothing to add to what has already been said. Huge hugs to you RK.x

Same goes for me if you're anywhere near Essex/Kent

You're all so amazing! And DCM that's the first time i have spotted your troll avatar picture - I like it's rainbow hair! I've been a lot better this afternoon and a lot more 'me'. I know this is due to all your lovely hugs and kind words of support. Thank you again from the bottom of my Otter heart!

I only changed it recently - it used to be a microlight - I just thought I'd be a troll for a while after a thread on here about them - I had one like this as a child

Big hugs to you, glad you are feeling better x

This.

I will always make myself available too if you are anywhere near Kent/East Sussex.

I can't imagine how you must be feeling, all I can do is echo what everyone else has been saying and give you a huge virtual hug.

I can't add any more than has already been said, just hugs and my thoughts. I can't imagine how you get through each day, you're an incredible lady. Much love to you xx