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Long term lurker "outing" herself.

Meltdown, 10 August, 2013 at 21:27 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 21

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OK So this has been a long time coming.

I first discovered hitched when I was getting married (several) years ago and was introduced to the site by a RL friend.

I was a poor poster and may have flounced at one point (cringe), Any whoo, i got married and then on our first anniversary my lovely husband told me that he didn't want to be married any more and we spilt. (not quite that simple but I will save the full story for another time.)

That was a couple of years ago and my divorce became final last year (WooHOO) and I have been with my lovely new Boyfriend for over 2 years now and we have lived together for 18 months.

I live in hope that despite a failed marriage apiece and only 24 months in total, that we will one day get engaged but at the moment we are not. I hope that you lovely Otters will let me post here until such time as he (or indeed I) decide to get engaged.

SO HI, ? and an one want to share my olives?

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Beginner September 2011
Helenia · 10 August, 2013 at 22:53
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Hello! I don't like olives, so you can have my share, but welcome to OT!
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Beginner April 2012
Cilla · 10 August, 2013 at 23:17
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I can't believe your ex left you on your aniversary! I'm glad you're happy now.

Hello and welcome
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Meltdown · 10 August, 2013 at 23:37
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He really was a gem! I didn't realise it at the time though. on our way home from dinner he told me he didn't love me and as we had been married a year we could now get a divorce. charming.

luckily B is much better for me, indeed he is an adult which is a definite improvement!
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Beginner March 2014
*Pugsley* · 10 August, 2013 at 23:37
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Hi and welcome back!

Glad to hear that things are looking up for you :-D.
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Beginner March 2014
*Pugsley* · 10 August, 2013 at 23:38
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OMG, just seen your last post... What a pig!!!!
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Meltdown · 10 August, 2013 at 23:53
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I have got to the point where it is funny, it hurt at the time.

I met B in our local pub here the land lady set us up.

I had just moved to a new town and didn't know anyone. my flat mate had introduced me to a new pub, and I had made it my second home. I asked the land lady where all the nice single men were in the town and she said (and I quote) "Have you tried Ben?"

2 and a half years later and we have had 2 other land lords in the pub but B and I are still going strong.
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Beginner July 2013
Kentish Gal · 11 August, 2013 at 02:08
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Well, what a charmer! But yay! to finding B, lol. Welcome!
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Beginner June 2011
AmnesiaCustard · 11 August, 2013 at 09:23
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Welcome to Otter -world!

Another one here who had a "starter marriage" (although my H turned out to be a very violent and nasty piece of work) and a divorce as soon as I could!

(You can keep your olives though!)
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Beginner October 2011
SuperSpud · 11 August, 2013 at 09:31
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? Hello & Welcome!

Sorry your ex-H was a d!ck, sounds like your new fella is better for you.
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MummyMoo82 · 11 August, 2013 at 09:59
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I'll take the olives, ,seeing as I'm off the booze.
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Nutella · 11 August, 2013 at 11:56
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? Welcome to Otter world! Your ex sounds like a pig.
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Beginner June 2013
*Teabag* · 11 August, 2013 at 12:38
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Hello and welcome to OT ?

I will share your olives even if they are a bit stale by now!
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Arquard · 11 August, 2013 at 15:23
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Bagsy the olives!

Hello and welcome to Otterworld. Your ex sounds delightful btw! Glad you've met a decent fellow at last. Love the "have you tried Ben?" line!!
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Beginner January 2012
*Mini* · 11 August, 2013 at 15:38
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I love a good olive.
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Beginner March 2012
kharv · 11 August, 2013 at 15:51
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I love Olives.

Welcome to OT!!
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Meltdown · 11 August, 2013 at 17:34
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The olives didn't last the night i am afraid, oops
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Beginner June 2014
Erin8 · 11 August, 2013 at 18:27
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Hello and welcome!
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leni-lw! · 11 August, 2013 at 19:07
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Hi
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Beginner December 2012
~Peanut~ · 11 August, 2013 at 19:15
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Hello! ?
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Loopz · 11 August, 2013 at 22:24
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What a complete c***! (I dont' think I've ever used that word on the tinternet, it must be bad!)
Welcome to the land of the Otters, olives are most definitely welcome. Especially if they are garlic or pimento stuffed!!
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Beginner June 2012
Pompey · 12 August, 2013 at 09:06
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Sounds a bit like what I am going through with my Hubby at the moment. Kn0bber.

I love olives btw.
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