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Meltdown
Dedicated September 2021

Long term lurker "outing" herself.

Meltdown, 10 August, 2013 at 21:27 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 21

OK So this has been a long time coming.

I first discovered hitched when I was getting married (several) years ago and was introduced to the site by a RL friend.

I was a poor poster and may have flounced at one point (cringe), Any whoo, i got married and then on our first anniversary my lovely husband told me that he didn't want to be married any more and we spilt. (not quite that simple but I will save the full story for another time.)

That was a couple of years ago and my divorce became final last year (WooHOO) and I have been with my lovely new Boyfriend for over 2 years now and we have lived together for 18 months.

I live in hope that despite a failed marriage apiece and only 24 months in total, that we will one day get engaged but at the moment we are not. I hope that you lovely Otters will let me post here until such time as he (or indeed I) decide to get engaged.

SO HI, ? and an one want to share my olives?

21 replies

Latest activity by Pompey, 12 August, 2013 at 09:06
  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
    Helenia ·
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    Hello! I don't like olives, so you can have my share, but welcome to OT!

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  • Cilla
    Beginner April 2012
    Cilla ·
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    I can't believe your ex left you on your aniversary! I'm glad you're happy now.

    Hello and welcome

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  • Meltdown
    Dedicated September 2021
    Meltdown ·
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    He really was a gem! I didn't realise it at the time though. on our way home from dinner he told me he didn't love me and as we had been married a year we could now get a divorce. charming.

    luckily B is much better for me, indeed he is an adult which is a definite improvement!

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  • *Pugsley*
    Beginner March 2014
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    Hi and welcome back!

    Glad to hear that things are looking up for you :-D.

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  • *Pugsley*
    Beginner March 2014
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    OMG, just seen your last post... What a pig!!!!

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  • Meltdown
    Dedicated September 2021
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    I have got to the point where it is funny, it hurt at the time.

    I met B in our local pub here the land lady set us up.

    I had just moved to a new town and didn't know anyone. my flat mate had introduced me to a new pub, and I had made it my second home. I asked the land lady where all the nice single men were in the town and she said (and I quote) "Have you tried Ben?"

    2 and a half years later and we have had 2 other land lords in the pub but B and I are still going strong.

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  • Kentish Gal
    Beginner July 2013
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    Well, what a charmer! But yay! to finding B, lol. Welcome!

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  • AmnesiaCustard
    Beginner June 2011
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    Welcome to Otter -world!

    Another one here who had a "starter marriage" (although my H turned out to be a very violent and nasty piece of work) and a divorce as soon as I could!

    (You can keep your olives though!)

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  • S
    Beginner October 2011
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    ? Hello & Welcome!

    Sorry your ex-H was a d!ck, sounds like your new fella is better for you.

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  • MummyMoo82
    Beginner October 2012
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    I'll take the olives, ,seeing as I'm off the booze.

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  • Nutella
    Beginner March 2013
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    ? Welcome to Otter world! Your ex sounds like a pig.

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  • *Teabag*
    Beginner June 2013
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    Hello and welcome to OT ?

    I will share your olives even if they are a bit stale by now!

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  • Arquard
    Beginner May 2011
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    Bagsy the olives!

    Hello and welcome to Otterworld. Your ex sounds delightful btw! Glad you've met a decent fellow at last. Love the "have you tried Ben?" line!!

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  • *Mini*
    Beginner January 2012
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    I love a good olive.

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  • kharv
    Beginner March 2012
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    I love Olives.

    Welcome to OT!!

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  • Meltdown
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    The olives didn't last the night i am afraid, oops

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  • Erin8
    Beginner June 2014
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    Hello and welcome!

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  • leni-lw!
    Beginner November 2011
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    Hi Smiley smile

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  • ~Peanut~
    Beginner December 2012
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    Hello! ?

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  • Loopz
    Beginner March 2013
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    What a complete c***! (I dont' think I've ever used that word on the tinternet, it must be bad!)
    Welcome to the land of the Otters, olives are most definitely welcome. Especially if they are garlic or pimento stuffed!!

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  • Pompey
    Beginner June 2012
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    Sounds a bit like what I am going through with my Hubby at the moment. Kn0bber.

    I love olives btw.

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