lost for words.........[:@] [banghead]

You are joking????????????????????

That's unbelievable!

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I don't quite know what to say!

OMG!!! I really couldn't believe what I'm reading to be honest........ How on earth did she have the cheek to send those cards out???

Whilst I don't condone violence, I can't blame you I'm afraid!

? Are you serious? What did the card actually say? I don't blame you for losing the plot - that is unbelievably rude and ungrateful, and just shocking to be honest! £50 vouchers is really generous anyway, especially considering the fact that you didn't even go!

I think she needs a serious wake up call as well as a punch in the face! What a rude ?

Sheeez! What a bloody ungrateful b!tch!

I wouldn't have slapped her, but I would have been very shouty. What a god darn cheek! That is more than rude!!!

x

(p.s - when did you see her, to slap her?!)

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...I'm also lost for words, if I'd heard this anywhere but here I'd have thought it was an urban myth. I mean I know people can turn bridezilla before the wedding but I thought there was an unwritten rule that on the day or afterward they got back to normal. That is just shocking!

Holy fkcu. i only ever give £50 at weddings cos it's all i can ever afford.

she.is.a.looper.

CULL.

(enjoy spending your JL vouchers ?)

Omg how ungrateful! I would be really chuffed if someone spent that much on our wedding present! I don't really know what to say to be honest other than that she sounds like a complete nightmare!

How ungrateful!

£50 is pretty generous as far as I'm aware....and why oh why would you do that?!

Some people are so strange!

the card said:

hillier, mr hillier & kids

we are so sorry you missed our wedding on sat, the day was perfect & we thoroughly enjoyed ourself.

we know you sent us the gift of vouchers (which we received - thanks) however it is not a reasonable amount for what we wanted to buy, if you can find any more money for us it would be appreciated

(best bit) ta from bridezilla & hubby

Now i dont condone violence either but she was extremly rude in what she was saying when a went to her house. she said mr hillier & i are not getting a gift from her at all now, which i dont mind AS WE ARE NOT GETTING MARRIED FOR MONEY OR GIFTS!!

kids were with another family member so didnt see their mum lose it...................

That is really strange....I don't supose they had included a money poem in the invite as well!?!

I'd be too embarassed to send anything like that, if you wanted to give her more, you would have done so off your own back! x

i had no intension of slapping her but the things she was saying to me just made my blood boil. She started to slate our wedding and even my kids which with me, you just dont do. she dropped the card in about 6am my sister stayes right over the road so she agreed to look after my bambinos while i paid her a visit. x

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I too am lost for words!

And when you confronted her she actually thought she was justified in sending it? It's bad enough if you were a wedding guest, but you didn't even go! You weren't obliged to get them anything anyway - and no guest should be either for that matter!

I am quite shocked actually. She needs her head tested. What did her mum say to you?

I can understand how in the heat of the moment things can escalate. I wasn't having a go at you.

The "god darn cheek" and "more than rude" was about her, not you.

What an absolute cow! Was she originally invited to your wedding?

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OMG I am in total shock!! I cant believe someone could be so rude and ungrateful. £50 is a lot of money for a gift to a cousin IMO.

I know you regret it but I think the slap was well asked for.

Oh.My.God that is shocking. I can't believe someone could be so completely ungrateful. You didn't even go, she still got a pressie and still she behaved like that? I would cull her in an instant! Fecking unbelievable behaviour and I hope she realised that after you left.

Have fun spending your vouchers!

oh she is, she flipped when one of her guests requested a glutten free meal (which was sent back with the rsvp) to which she said "there always has to be one does there"

she is just a nasty person

£50 is loads! I usually spend £20 to £30 on a wedding gift. How roooooooooood. She is clearly on a different planet - enjoy spending the vouchers!

oh no OLL its ok i understand what you were saying. just the fact that she was sayin stuff about my kids pushed me lol x

I cannot believe someone could be so rude, she's basically saying you are tight! Getting £50 for someone not coming to the wedding is really generous! She sounds like a right little spoilt cow.

Is she coming to your wedding, if so that would be enough from me to uninvite her?

The thing is you getting the vouchers back isn't the point is it - you choose to buy vouchers for a shop she would find things to buy themselves not for you and your family - you may have chosen to spend the £50 on something different if it was for yourselves.

x

? WSS!!

Somehow I don't think words would have got through to her as much as a slap, as bad as that sounds! Especially if she was saying things about your children too.

I would cull her instantly. I'm actually really angry for you now! ?

I just read the slap thing afterwards, I think in this case well deserved - because sending you the vouchers back is a slap in the face for you and she must know you are saving for your wedding too and that £50 could have gone towards some of your plans x

I am absolutly gobsmacked, speachless, oh my god, how rude, she deserves more than just the one slap, my god. i would be landed with a £50 gift, how kind.

i am shocked, absolutly shocked.

How rude!!!

£50 is more than enough in my opinion & I'm sure most people would be greatful to recieve that amount.

I would have definatley given her a good slap.

Bloody unbelievable! How could she be so rude??

I agree what other's have said, i don't believe in violence either, but i probably would have lost it too and given her a good hard slap!

OMG!!! how rude - to be honest i have never been able to afford to give that much as a gift hence why my small list that people requested has things like tea towels ect as i dont expect them to spend lots.

I had an invite from a family member once which had the No kids rule and then went on to say after the dreaded money poem about no need for pots and pans -

"please remeber that gifts will be returned as we only wont money over the value of £150.00 per person as we have spent that much on having you here today"

You can imagine what i did with that invite

oh i do regret it in a was as it is totally out of character for me - in any other situation i would have just walked away as its just ridiculous but the fact that she is insinuating im tight and also bringing my 2yr old & 10month old (which you can imagin the things she was saying) into a situation that does not concern them was the last straw for me - say what you want about me but not my kids as it will hit a nerve.

i have had a txt from my other cousin - apparently an apology is on its way.......................

How rude

If I got a £50 gift I would be immensly grateful, although I have to say I respect your aunt apolaguising for her daughter, sounds like the girl is out of control!

Enjoy your shopping in JL and don't lether get to you any more

xx

Oh My Actual God ?

now im shocked!!!! that is just crazy. god im so glad we are not like these nutters!!!! x

Firstly she definately deserves the slap, i would do the same thing!

I'm in shock!! I can't believe that they said that to you! Have fun spending the vouchers! Don't forget to send them the exact same letter after your wedding! x

Oh. my. God! ?

Is she actually for real? i cant believe how rude and cheeky she actually is, that is so ungrateful! You did right to slap her she totally deserved it.

xxxx

Hillier...vikki......I'm absolutely speechless....I was reading this thread and my jaw kept dropping. How unbelievably rude!!!! You can imagine how long these marriages are going to last if they only getting married for money...fcuking hell.....

How dare anyone ask for a minimum amount? I just don't get it. That is just soooo absolutely....I can't even find words for it....I think rude is an understatement.....wow.....?