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maid of honour problems

emmanholmes84, 21 May, 2012 at 13:00 Posted on Planning 0 3

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I have a maid of honour who is my cousin and my bridesmaid is my best friend who i am really close too i see her every other day my MOH has been acting differently for a while shes a little wild and i dont see her that much and sometimes feel my feelings are not in her best interest where as my bridesmaid cares so much about me i was thinking during the service i might give my bridesmaid my flowers and she also been a witness

do u think this will be ok? really wish i would of thought about things properly before i asked

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Latest activity by jhndavid, 22 May, 2012 at 08:38

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Bee26 · 21 May, 2012 at 13:08
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I would think that would be fine, I know I wouldnt pay any attention to who got handed the flowers. Why dont u make them both maids of honour? Just say u love them both and didnt feel right having one without the other. My OH has 2 best men as he couldnt possinly choose between his two best mates so I dont see having two MOHs as being any different!
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SarahThompson · 21 May, 2012 at 15:57
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I agree with Bee. Have them both as MOH, then you don't need to dump your cousin. One can be given the flowers during the ceremony, the other can be the witness to you signing the register. That way they are both as important as each other and your cousin doesn't even need to know why you have 2 MOH's. As Bee says, just say you really felt you couldn't choose between them both so wanted to have them both.
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jhndavid · 22 May, 2012 at 08:38
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We ended up choosing his sister and her husband because even though they work nights when we needed help with their invites they woke up early and helped. I'd step back and decide who is going to offer the most help the closer you get to the big day.
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