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Beginner September 2011

Major Dress Wobbles with 4 Weeks to go *FLASH* - WWYD? *UPDATED WITH NEW DRESS PICS!!*

blueeyedgirl, 12 August, 2011 at 20:36 Posted on Planning 0 23

Right so saga so far is that I did find I dress I liked and for those of u who remember I posted on here saying that the dress shop ordered the wrong size...mare basically. Long story short I was up s**t creek and had to chase my tail finding a high street or sample dress. I found one, and was just happy to have it sorted. but after having some alterations in my hearts of hearts its not 'the dress', its not perfect and I dont feel fab in it..... i think it hangs funny and is dead heavy so feel like I am pulling it up all the time.

So WWYD? I only have 4 weeks till the wedding and I feel a bit of a tit deciding this so late, tho tbf its not my fault the original dress didnt work out. I just want to feel amazing and I dont get that in this dress, I think i was just being practical and wanted something sorted. Also I did look around loads and I didnt see any - high street or sample - so if i want another - where would I look?

I did see one an Amanda Wyatt Naples - tho cant find it online?! - but its £900 and I am completely maxed out so there is no way in hell I can afford it. I just dont want to feel uncomforatable and not at my prettiest on my w-day but what can I do in my time short, money shorter situation?

Help ladies feeling *** :-(

*NEW UPDATE*

Found a dress I luuuurve! See flash! She's making me a cute lace bolero to match and the sash will be wider with a vintagey sparkly brooch thing. I just love the dress and feel fab in it, just wanted to flounce around! Its quite vintage with the lace, but the bow makes it young and romantic - I just LOVE it! Shes pinned it at the front but it will be a sweetheart neckline. Did I mention it was £900 reduced to £350?! Though the lace bolero is eyewateringly expensive, but as this stage with 19 days to go, and my third dress i'm just happy! Sorry for the mongy picture!

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Latest activity by 3d jewellery, 16 August, 2011 at 07:42
  • nanny plum
    Beginner September 2011
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    Sorry you don't feel totally happy with your dress and you have been mucked about. If it counts for anything i think you look stunning and i love the dress in the pictures.

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  • haylee81
    Beginner May 2012
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    I think the dress is lovely, the detailing is fab and I really like the big key hole back. The hang on it looks good in the pictures. Hope you get it sorted so you feel 100%

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  • ex-lurker
    Beginner November 2011
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    Blueyed girl, so sorry to hear about the dress trauma. But I agree with others - I think your dress is beautiful (love the detail in the pattern), and in the photos it looks great on you - I certainly can't see anything that looks like it is hanging funny. I see that you are getting married in a castle, and think it looks so perfect for that kind of venue - the neckline is very elegant, tudor-style. Of course you need to feel comfortable, and others may have some good advice on what you could do if you really want a different dress, but from the pics I think you really would stun H2B and your guests in that one. Really hope it all works out in a way that makes you happy.

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  • B
    Beginner September 2011
    blueeyedgirl ·
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    Thanks ladies just feel like its not right but think I am going to have to wear it!

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  • T
    Beginner October 2012
    TracieGtobe ·
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    Like the others have said it is a beautiful dress and looks gorgeous on you.

    I wonder if maybe it isnt the dress itself thats causing you concern but because its not the other dress? If thats the case would you feel the same in any dress that isnt the first one you chose maybe?

    I really hope it all turns out how you want and that you feel like a princess on your day xxx

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  • skyrocket
    Beginner July 2012
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    I think its looks lovely on you, but if in your heart its not the one for you then I think theres still time.

    Could you look on Preloved, Ebay, Sample sales?

    What would you be able to spend?

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  • K
    Beginner June 2012
    kfair ·
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    It looks stunning, the beading and detail is beautiful. If you dont feel 'right' in it im sure theres still time, why not get searching for sample/seconds warehouses and book appointments galore over the next few weeks. Where are you based? people may be able to suggest places to try. ?

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  • 3d jewellery
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    Maybe a slightly fuller underskirt would help with the way it hangs if you don't like that. If you are near Huddersfield I know someone who has some new dress samples to sell

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  • tinkerbelly1983
    Beginner October 2011
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    Can i say that the dress you are wearing in these pictures is stunning, truly stunning.,Imagine it with your hair done and your jewellery & bouquet... you will be a beautiful bride. if it doesnt feel 'right' then maybe it needs altering again? i dont know.... but i know that you look lovely and im a bit jealous of your dress! its gorgeous

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  • tinkerbelly1983
    Beginner October 2011
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    Oh and another thing, clothes always look funny when you take pics of yourself in it. remember your tog with know how to position you so you look your best

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  • kharv
    Beginner March 2012
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    I can honestly say this dress is gorgeous. It looks great on you. Very Jane Austen-esque - very classic. I really really like it. The detailing and shape is beautiful. When you said you'd found a dress you loved I wasn't expecting something as unique as this.

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  • hopkins78
    Beginner November 2011
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    It's a stunning gown and you look beautiful in it. However if you dont feel happy then nothing we say will change your mind...

    Why don't you trawl some of the bridal shops in the area? There are quite a few with sample sales on at the minute and will do alterations/cleaning foc or fairly cheaply. It might be worth a try?

    I hope you find something that you are happy with or that you slowly fall in love with the gown you have.

    Good luck, xxx

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    Beginner September 2011
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    Appreciate all your ladies kind comments but when you know its not right...its not right. So went to another bridal shop this morning, not exxpecting to find anything and FOUND A DRESS! Its a slight sweetheart neckline, lace overlay, nips me in at the waist and looks fab! She is going to make me a sash to go round the middle or a big bow which just makes the dress. Its still light and not too big a skirt but feels like a wedding dress!

    I am so haooy, I had a sleepless night last night and just woke up this morning and though, right I need to get it sorted. Plus it was £900 reduced to £350! Got fitting on Monday but only need the length taken up as it fits perfect! SO PLEASED! Now can actually looke forward to wedding + not stress!

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  • Soulmates
    Beginner August 2012
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    Soooo pleased for you, I remember the nightmare you were having with the first dress.

    will you be able to return the other one?

    Where is the flash??????

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  • K
    Beginner June 2012
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    Oh im so pleases for you hun, glad you found a dress you feel really special in. ? would love to see a flash ?

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    Beginner September 2011
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    Have flashed!

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  • Soulmates
    Beginner August 2012
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    Good Girl! It's beautiful and your happy which is the main thing, it'll look great with your adjustments too, love the idea of the bolero and wider sash.

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  • JennyH10
    Beginner May 2013
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    It's absolutely gorgeous, I adore the lace dresses ? I'm so glad for you that it's finally sorted!!

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  • B
    Beginner September 2011
    blueeyedgirl ·
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    Thanks! :-)

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  • schiocco
    Beginner July 2012
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    You new dress is gorgeous! And I think all the adjustments (neckline, sash, bolero) will be the perfect choices too!

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    Beginner August 2013
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    That dress is beautiful, I'm so glad you found one after your nightmare! It looks fantasic on you.

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  • lisaloulou
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    It's beautiful. So glad you found a dress you love.

    Sash + lace + sweetheart = my kinda dress!

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  • 3d jewellery
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    Excellent news that must be a huge weight off your mind

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