Major Dress Wobbles with 4 Weeks to go *FLASH* - WWYD? *UPDATED WITH NEW DRESS PICS!!*

Sorry you don't feel totally happy with your dress and you have been mucked about. If it counts for anything i think you look stunning and i love the dress in the pictures.

I think the dress is lovely, the detailing is fab and I really like the big key hole back. The hang on it looks good in the pictures. Hope you get it sorted so you feel 100%

Blueyed girl, so sorry to hear about the dress trauma. But I agree with others - I think your dress is beautiful (love the detail in the pattern), and in the photos it looks great on you - I certainly can't see anything that looks like it is hanging funny. I see that you are getting married in a castle, and think it looks so perfect for that kind of venue - the neckline is very elegant, tudor-style. Of course you need to feel comfortable, and others may have some good advice on what you could do if you really want a different dress, but from the pics I think you really would stun H2B and your guests in that one. Really hope it all works out in a way that makes you happy.

Thanks ladies just feel like its not right but think I am going to have to wear it!

Like the others have said it is a beautiful dress and looks gorgeous on you.

I wonder if maybe it isnt the dress itself thats causing you concern but because its not the other dress? If thats the case would you feel the same in any dress that isnt the first one you chose maybe?

I really hope it all turns out how you want and that you feel like a princess on your day xxx

I think its looks lovely on you, but if in your heart its not the one for you then I think theres still time.

Could you look on Preloved, Ebay, Sample sales?

What would you be able to spend?

It looks stunning, the beading and detail is beautiful. If you dont feel 'right' in it im sure theres still time, why not get searching for sample/seconds warehouses and book appointments galore over the next few weeks. Where are you based? people may be able to suggest places to try. ?

Maybe a slightly fuller underskirt would help with the way it hangs if you don't like that. If you are near Huddersfield I know someone who has some new dress samples to sell

Can i say that the dress you are wearing in these pictures is stunning, truly stunning.,Imagine it with your hair done and your jewellery & bouquet... you will be a beautiful bride. if it doesnt feel 'right' then maybe it needs altering again? i dont know.... but i know that you look lovely and im a bit jealous of your dress! its gorgeous

Oh and another thing, clothes always look funny when you take pics of yourself in it. remember your tog with know how to position you so you look your best

I can honestly say this dress is gorgeous. It looks great on you. Very Jane Austen-esque - very classic. I really really like it. The detailing and shape is beautiful. When you said you'd found a dress you loved I wasn't expecting something as unique as this.

It's a stunning gown and you look beautiful in it. However if you dont feel happy then nothing we say will change your mind...

Why don't you trawl some of the bridal shops in the area? There are quite a few with sample sales on at the minute and will do alterations/cleaning foc or fairly cheaply. It might be worth a try?

I hope you find something that you are happy with or that you slowly fall in love with the gown you have.

Good luck, xxx

Appreciate all your ladies kind comments but when you know its not right...its not right. So went to another bridal shop this morning, not exxpecting to find anything and FOUND A DRESS! Its a slight sweetheart neckline, lace overlay, nips me in at the waist and looks fab! She is going to make me a sash to go round the middle or a big bow which just makes the dress. Its still light and not too big a skirt but feels like a wedding dress!

I am so haooy, I had a sleepless night last night and just woke up this morning and though, right I need to get it sorted. Plus it was £900 reduced to £350! Got fitting on Monday but only need the length taken up as it fits perfect! SO PLEASED! Now can actually looke forward to wedding + not stress!

Soooo pleased for you, I remember the nightmare you were having with the first dress.

will you be able to return the other one?

Where is the flash??????

Oh im so pleases for you hun, glad you found a dress you feel really special in. ? would love to see a flash ?

Have flashed!

Good Girl! It's beautiful and your happy which is the main thing, it'll look great with your adjustments too, love the idea of the bolero and wider sash.

It's absolutely gorgeous, I adore the lace dresses ? I'm so glad for you that it's finally sorted!!

Thanks! :-)

You new dress is gorgeous! And I think all the adjustments (neckline, sash, bolero) will be the perfect choices too!

That dress is beautiful, I'm so glad you found one after your nightmare! It looks fantasic on you.

It's beautiful. So glad you found a dress you love.

Sash + lace + sweetheart = my kinda dress!

Excellent news that must be a huge weight off your mind