We went to an Army do the other night where I met a lot of OH's superiors and colleagues that I'd not met before. On three times throughout the night I was asked where we'd met to which I replied "Mr HB's works party" and was each time met with the response "this year or last year?! Err no, five years ago! Just amused me that they'd assume because we aren't married that we've only just met?
The other thing I am randomly pondering is that quite a few times in recent months I have heard people refer to their 'husband' or 'ex-husband' when they aren't married, and in the ex-husband case were never married? The people who said this have been with their partners for a long time (over 7 or 8 years and in another case over 20 years) but still I don't think I'd ever refer to my partner as my husband if we weren't married?
Sorry, said it was random lol!