Probably asking on the wholly wrong forum - but anyway - I just wondered what justifications / reasons etc men who "will not marry" give for their decision? I am refering particularly to men who are completely happy in their long term relationship and will enter into a mortgage and even fatherhood with that woman - but still refuse to enter a marriage with them - even when their OHs are 'desperate' to do so.... Is it fair? (Is it fair for the woman to continue to hope for / expect a marriage if he doesn't)? Would you assume that the relationship is not as 'committed' as it seems if he will not marry her?
Just wondering what people's opinions are.
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