Mil fell in garden last october, had a hip replacement and cardiac arrest, hence spent 1 month in intensive care and came home last week.
FIL had a stroke 8 yrs ago and is also diabetic so has to watch what he eats, she is a large woman.... thats the background, my problem is their eating. Now they are back in their little bungalow its down to me to order their shopping online after they give me their list.
Yesterday they wanted: Malted, milk, rich tea, ginger nuts, digestives, tinned spam, cooking lard, sausages, 4 packets of Mr Kiplings Cakes and 5 jars of paste!!!! with the paste they make a sandwich then toast it? surely thats lethal?
How the flip do I put it nicely that this is pure fat and not good for them? he quite often has days when he 'doesnt feel special' (not surprising with what she feeds him) for the 4 months he was being looked after while she was in hospital he was 100%.
Do I say anything or just let them get on with it? they are in their 70's and don't seem to be able to change their diet!!
