Hi Peeps,
I haven't posted for a while but I really need some wedding related advice :-(
I've decided I'm having 2 hen do's. One weekend away with 7 of my closest girlfriends. Hopefully 2 nights abroad, depending on costs. Then I'm having another one, a night out closer to home for Mum's, Aunties and other friends/work colleagues. H2B is doing the same.
MIL2B is not happy. H2B told her what he is doing - no reaction (he can do no wrong). Then he said I'm doing the same and she pulled a face.
Next time I saw her it was 101 questions about the hen do "the one I'm not invited to" she said. I explained I want a wkend with my girls, just young ones. My Mum has been totally fine about it, TBH I think she's relieved! She wouldn't want mad nights out with 20something girls. Both Mums are in their 50's. I told MIL that my Mum wouldn't enjoy it. "I would, why can't I come?" she keeps making sly comments every time it is mentioned.
To be honest I don't want her there. She is loud, nosey, annoying. She would not get on with my friends and does not enjoy the same things we do.
My Sister In Law (married to H2B brother) who I'm really good friends with just text me to say MIL is slagging me off for not inviting her and said she is now boycotting my "2nd" hen do.....spiteful cow!
I am raging! I hate that I have to justify myself to her! This is the exact reason I don't want her to come. She thinks she has a God given right to be involved in everything!
So....WWYD???! Should I ignore it all or confront her?! I don't think she will actually see through her threat of not coming but I hate the fact that she has been talking about me behind my back, I want to stand up for myself!
WWYD.....