Morning all.
Over on WP there's a thread about now to organise finances once married, and lots of OTers have commented. I'd say there's a majority view that even if a couple have a joint account, salaries tend to be paid into sole accounts before a percentage is transferred across. I read comments such as "I wouldn't want anyone else to access my money" and "I want my financial independence".
I had a think about his, since I'm very independent, yet next month, once the old house is sold, we'll be moving to a system of only one joint current account, with a set amount going into each of our ISAs. At any point, there will always be far, far more money in my ISA than in our current account, and once the ISA contributions are reached, for tax reasons any other bonds, investments etc etc will be in separate names. So in fact, the vast, vast proportion of our liquid assets are be individual and not accessible by the other, regardless of the only current account being joint.
On the flipside, when a couple have a joint mortgage, a very large proportion, if not the majority, of their money becomes tied up in the property. So stating that you want the £4-5k a month salaries to stay separate is surely immaterial when you have a mortgage on a £200k+ property?
Not really sure what I'm trying to say, except that maybe where the salary gets paid and where general monthly joint and personal spends come from is maybe a little irrelevant in the big scheme of things?