Hello,
I'm sorry if I came to a wrong place to post my questions about wedding but I really need your advice on my issue.
Basically the issue is that my boyfriend doesn't do anything for our wedding.
We're in an interracial relationship and he's going to come to the country where I live to marry.
Because we're very far away from each other and he's coming here, I've been arranging everything by myself from choosing the venue to booking hotels for him and his parents.
I don't expect much from him but I want him to show interest in the planning at least.
Our wedding is around two months away but he hasn't booked flights.
It takes a couple of weeks to order wedding rings and get them if we order customised rings, I have asked him several times how we're going to choose and buy rings. I suggested choosing ring designs from an online shop and buying it.
Or maybe we could go for a popular ring brand that has shops there and here.
I sent him photos of several couple rings which look quite nice.
All he said was he would go to a jewellery shop and have a look for HIS ring.
He chooses his ring and I chooses my ring and we buy the rings. That's his suggestion.
My question is if I'm going to choose and buy my ring, if it has any meaning as a wedding ring.
I found his suggestion hard to understand to the point that I took it as a nonsense.
It was almost the only thing I expected from him to buy me a ring but he didn't get the point and just got annoyed.
His attitude really disappoints me. He doesn't even know what the budget is although I have sent him a list but we have never discussed who's going to pay for what. I have been paying for everything so far.
He never took an initiative. Recently I found him very passive and indecisive.
I'm wondering if it's common in the UK therefore I should take his attitude as a cultural difference or it's just his personality.
If it's a cultural thing, I should change my approach but if it's the latter, I think I should reconsider marriage.
Please advise. . .
Thank you all for your time and help in advance.