My Husband has decided...

I take it you are joking....or he is leaving you but only for the weekend....

I wish I was joking. He's decided that living with me is hell and he's not going to compromise or change so he's off.

WHAT?

WTAF?!?!

Oh PP I am so sorry. He's a fool for not trying to work things out and just getting up & going like that, surely your marriage is worth more to him than that. Did he give you any other reason other than "your marraige is doomed".

Hugs ?

!?! ? !?! Can we help any way!?!

What??? Just an announcement out of the blue without any conversation beforehand???

Wow PP, so sorry to hear this. How awful for you. Is there something specific that has triggered this, like a row you can resolve, or is it something he's been thinking about for a while? Stay strong, we're all here for you.

was this following a row? or a 'heated discussion' or just out fo the blue?!

Wtaf? Where on earth has that come from?

Oh PP I don't really know what to say but ((((((((hugs))))))))

Oh PP, huge hugs ? I hope he goes and cools off today and comes back in a more compromising and understanding mood.

Dear god PP what happened?

What the hell?!!!

What?? What an absolute knob! He can't just drop something like that on you. That's awful. Hugs for you. Really hope it gets sorted xxx

WHAT???

PP... huge hugs. I don't know what else to say. I'm so sorry and hope this is something you can work out.

Oh PP, I'm so sorry to hear this. Share more details if you want, but please don't feel you have to. I hope everythign works out for you.x

WHAT?!

Is this totally out of the blue?

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PP, really? That's awful if so, you poor thing. Is there anything we can do to help? x

You poor thing ☹️ Was it out of the blue? I'm relatively new to OT but here if you need anything.

PP this is horrid ☹️

Is there nothing you can work at. God i'm so sorry xx

I'm so sorry, was it totally unexpected? I hope you have family or friends nearby to talk to but we are here for you ?

Really sorry to hear this. Is there anyway this can be resolved?

Pp if you want some company over the weekend let me know? Ive got nothing planned.

Is there anything that has happened to make him feel like this? Have you had a masive barny?

So sorry to hear this ☹️ WTF is wrong with bloomin' men!?!

Hope it gets sorted out!! xx

That's just awful, I really hope you can work through it

I don't know what to say. So sorry PP like everyone else said if theres anything i can do xxx hope you get sorted ?☹️

Two nights in a row I've been out at netball.

Monday night I asked him if he would get some quotes for pet insurance and brush the kittens (as theyve had fleas). I get home about 10 that night and there is a H shaped dent in the sofa and he's been playing the Xbox for 5hours. This peed me off, but I was shattered after my match so had a shower, said night and went to bed I think he combed the cats about ten to midnight!

Yesterday we had netball training and I asked him do the insurance quotes and I would go through them with him when I got home. Got home and H was on Xbox and the cats had wrecked the front room. Clearly H hadnt even batted an eyelid. Asked him about insurance he said 'well I googled some companies'. But he didnt get any quotes at all. I tried to ignore it, showered, had some tea and looked myself. Already peed off PP then had to contend with the kittens having a funny five mins so I went to give them some kittie milk and they jumped up on the work surface sending everything flying. Milk everywhere. That was the straw that broke the camel's back.

Some prize quotes from him are:

'You can't train cats so there is no point shouting at them. Maybe you should've done some research before you got them'. HE WANTED THEM, I DIDNT.

'I'm going to ignore your family because you were a b!tch to my Mum when she came over for the wedding'. She hijacked everything and tried to change things that I had been planning for over a year, I had every right to be mad.

'But I did the washing up'.

I am not innocent in all this, I did tell him that; his mother mollycoddled him and that is why he is so bone-idle and that if he got his attitute towards marriage from his Dad, no wonder FIL can't hold down a relationship.

I had no idea if I'm honest. Life has obviously slowed down since the honeymoon, but I thought we were pootling along nicely.

Oh God, how awful. Sounds like he's been a right lazy bum! I can't stand laziness!

It sounds like he's the one being impossible to live with, he seems to think he can carry on life playing the Xbox and doesn't seem to realise he has a wife that should be put first!