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Peaches
Super January 2012

My sister has cancer :((

Peaches, 10 March, 2009 at 03:35 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 69

I've only heard tonight as she rang my Mum and told her. She found out 2 weeks ago that it's in her neck next to her spinal cord, and in her lung/s

What else can be thrown at my family??

She lives in Australia, so it's not a short hop and skip to go and see her (not that any of us will be skipping). I'm just numb inside. Not quite sure how to describe it.

She must be going through hell. And her children too. She's 56 and my niece and nephew are in their mid 30s. How awful for them (us) all ☹️☹️

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Latest activity by Saphira, 11 March, 2009 at 17:02
  • Canadian Liz
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    Oh, Hell, Peaches, what else can be thrown, indeed. My heart goes out to you and your family. ?

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  • pigalicious
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    ? So sorry to read this Peaches, such a horrible thing to find out and must even harder for you given the distance.

    Pig xx

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  • AnnaBanana
    Beginner July 2007
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    Oh Peaches ?

    Thinking of you and your sister. Please take care of yourself too, its a lot to handle.

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  • Redbedhead
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    What crappy news. Big hugs for you and of course lots of vibes for your sister.

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  • Mal
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    Aww peaches, much love to you all.

    What's the prognosis?

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  • Dooby
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    Sorry to hear your sister's news. It must have come as a shock especially with her being so far away.

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  • Purple Pixie
    Beginner July 2012
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    Oh Peaches, I am so sorry. We found out a couple of weeks ago that OH's step-dad has got it in his liver so I kind of know how you're feeling.

    Do you know when she's starting treatment?

    My love to you and your family x

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  • MrsD
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    Peaches, I'm so sorry to hear yet more bad stuff happening to your family. Words seem a bit inadequate but I hope you and your family can get through this.

    Love to you all.

    xx

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  • Gryfon
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    Sorry to hear that ?

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  • KB3
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    Really sorry to hear this Peaches ?

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  • *ginni of the lamp*
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    So sorry Peaches. What's her prognosis?

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  • Consuela Banana Hammock
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    Oh Peaches this just seems so unfair. I'm so sorry. ?

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  • WelshTotty
    Beginner December 2014
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    Aw no chick, it seems like something is always happening. What sad news. I do hope that whatever treatment she has will help. Much love to you and your family xx

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    How awful ?

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  • Mrs Magic
    Beginner May 2007
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    Oh lovely, I'm so sorry to hear about your sister. ? It never rains but it pours, hey?

    Can you go to see her? I've no idea how far you are from LA but I know Quantas and AA connect there direct to Oz. It's about a 14/15 hour flight. ?

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  • pinkjay
    Beginner October 2007
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    Im really sorry to hear this Peaches ?

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  • Luthien
    Beginner June 2007
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    Peaches, I am so sorry to hear this ?

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    So sorry to hear this ?

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  • tahdah
    Beginner September 2009
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    Awh Peaches what a rotten thing to happen, your poor sister and all the family.

    One day you shall see sunshine after all your bad news...I just hope it's sooner rather than later ?

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  • Secret Lemonade Drinker
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    Oh Peaches, I am so very sorry to hear this. ?

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  • Hyacinth
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    God peaches i am so so sorry ?

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  • Peaches
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    Thanks everyone

    I'm not sure what the prognosis is. I don't think she knows herself as today is her last radiotherapy treatment, and then they'll see from there. She told Mum that if they operate she could end up paralysed due to the proximity of the tumour.

    I've not been able to bring myself to ring Mum and talk about it. Not just yet. I'm still finding it all very tough with my brother as it is ..

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  • GMT
    Beginner December 2008
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    Aw hell, Peaches, I thought surely you've had more than your fair share of grief? I'm so sorry to hear about your sister. Have they said what the prognosis is? Send big cyber hugs to you. Fat lot of good they'll do, but I'm still sending them ....

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  • CelticAngel
    Beginner May 2007
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    Sorry to hear this awful news. You have an awful lot on your plate?

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    Oh Peache, that's truly rotten. ?

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  • The White Rabbit
    Beginner September 2007
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    Oh Peaches I'm so sorry - I wish there was a magic wand I could wave that would make things right for your family

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    Oh no, Peaches that is terrible. Your poor family, you are all really going through it ?

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    So sorry to hear this, Peaches.

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  • Peaches
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    Me too WR, me too.

    It just seems to be one thing after another.

    It's also got me thinking about genetics. My sister is my half sister - we both have the same Dad. This is the first time I'm aware of cancer on his side. My Mum's father died of it and my Mum has been riddled with it over the years, but fought back. When I was doing my CPCAB training, one of the things that came up was genetic counselling. Perhaps I should investigate further?

    It's our 5th wedding anniversary this weekend and we're due to go away to a spa to fully relax. We were both really looking forward to it, but now I just feel totally and utterly awful. Can't describe the feeling.

    I've not spoken to my sister much since Dad died as it all got very nasty over his will. She completely went nuts along with her brother (my half brother, not the one I've recently been talking about) and they were attacking my Mum over what they believed was their inheritance. I'm not quite sure how to handle this now. It's all such a mess.

    Christ, I feel so crap ?

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    That`s a terrible blow-really sorry to hear this.

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  • Peaches
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    I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do Mrs M. We were extremely close when I was young. In fact, she was my 'Mum' right up until I was 4 when she left home to join her real Mum in Australia. She was 16 at the time, and our bond was really strong. Now, after all the will fiasco and the way she and her (our) brother acted before and after the funeral, it's left a bitter taste.

    Gah. She doesn't deserve this though.

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    Beginner July 2009
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    Oh Peaches I am sorry, you and your family have had a rough time as it is. ?

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