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emma_louise
Beginner August 2009

My weddings off

emma_louise, 22 September, 2008 at 21:24 Posted on Planning 0 13

Havent been on here for a while, been all over the place the last month or so.

To cut a long story short I am no longer getting married next August and am no longer engaged. Rumours went around that I was cheating on my other half - why I would wait 6 months while he was in the middle of the sea and decide to cheat when he gets home is beyond me. His family then decided to spread I was only with him for his money.

After spending time together just as friends the other half asked me again yesturday to be 'his girlfriend'. We have been getting on amazingly well and just think we got stuck in a rut. Just finding it all a bit over whelming that we have taken what feels like a million steps back.

Ive only just thought about selling the few wedding bits I have bought. Havent called about my dress or the church or anything yet. Guess Im just putting it off because once I make the call it really is official ☹️

So Im going to have a few bits up on the for sale forum if anyone is interested.

Hope your all well and congrats to everyone who has got married while I have been away.

Emma Louise x

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Latest activity by Mrs Bloom, 23 September, 2008 at 18:18
  • bec84
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    Sorry to hear that...hope you sort things out xxx

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  • debbydoo
    Beginner May 2009
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    Sorry to hear that Emma. I've seen a few of your posts on here before, remembered you cos my h2b is in the navy too. I'm sure you've got loads of friends who'll be helping you out just now when you need them but im here with a listening ear,just drop me a line. Hope everything works out for you

    Debbie x

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  • teeheeyoucrazyguys!
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    Sory to hear this but i'm glad that you are still together and taking a look at the whole situation.

    I hope his family take back what they thought about you and apologise too Smiley smile

    huggles x

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  • bluewater
    Beginner August 2009
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    So so sorry to read this emma_louise ?

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  • emmyroo22
    Beginner October 2009
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    WSS really hun. Glad you are trying to work things out tho. Is there defo no chance of getting things back on track?? it'd be awful to get rid of all your bits, only to wish you hadn't!!

    wishing you guys all the best anyways xx

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  • emma_louise
    Beginner August 2009
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    Down the line it may all happen again but deffinatly not any time soon. To be honest I would rather get rid of everything and start again if the time comes up.

    Emma Louise x

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  • Snow Patroller
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    Take care missus - heres to things getting sorted in the future for you and Adam ...

    Leigh x

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  • Duck no more
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    If only his family could see what you post you on hitched about him , about you missing him so much , i'm sure they would take back what they said.

    Glad you are still together & working through things.

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  • Ellie_S
    Beginner March 2012
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    Sorry to hear this hun. as the others have said at least you have a chance to work things through. how horrible of his family! big hugs

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  • mummy
    Beginner March 2009
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    Am sorry to hear this, but glad to see you are still together. Hope his family realise their mistakes and have the decency to apologise xxx

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  • chids
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    Sorry to hear that. It's nice to see that it's not over completely though and that you're still together as boyfriend and girlfriend. In time you may get back to the point that you were at.

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  • Debi*M
    Beginner July 2009
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    So sorry to hear that Emma Louise, his family sound awful and i hope they realise and apologise somewhere along the line. Big hugs to you xxx

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    Beginner March 2009
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    Sorry to hear this - glad to hear you are still together though, don't let the gossips beat you. I think you are doing the right thing by getting rid of all you wedding things, then when the time comes again to start planning, you won't have them as reminders of this difficult time. Hope to see you planning again soon x

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