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Needing to chill

happy&stressed, 13 November, 2009 at 12:45 Posted on Planning 0 1

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The past week or so i have been going into major panic mode, worrying about all kinds of stupid things, (ie. one of my 2nd cousins is a bit of a d head and worrying that he's going to kick off in the evening)!! in fact ive been worrying about anything and everying and the fact that still have quite a bit to do. my oh has been getting a bit concerned saying i will go into meltdown on the day if i'm not careful, so last night after having some friends round and being able to have a proper girly chat about my worries etc i have decided to chill about it all. work through my things to do list and not to spend hours milling over silly little things!!!

i wonder how i will do!!!!!!

oh and called the registrar yesterday just had a feeling i was missing something and they told me they hadnt recieved the documents from my local office!!! aarrrggghhh

7 weeks to go and panicing ......., no not me..............

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Latest activity by cola, 14 November, 2009 at 13:17

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22tango · 13 November, 2009 at 20:43
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Poor you! its very hard not to get stressed... make tat list and (easily said) take one thing at a time ?
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cola · 14 November, 2009 at 13:17
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Its good that you had a girly chat with your friends and got all your worries out, what i would suggest is don't stress the small things, at the end of the day all that really matters is your marrying your honey (easy for me to say now i've still got 9 months until my wedding.)

i know what u mean about your 2nd cousin, i've got an uncle like that and when i told him i was getting married and my sisters bf was coming he made a comment about it all kicking off with him. i was so gobsmacked that that was his reaction i didn't say anything, then in the ride home with my mum i really went mad, lots and lots of swear words and name calling that he would even consider that on my day, how bloody rude!!!! i spoke to my H2B and we've asked one of our burley friends to keep an eye out and if it does kick off the pair of them will be getting escorted out, no questions asked, i don't care about the reasons. there is no way i'm spending all this time, effort and money for them to ruin it. u think he'd just b greatful for the free booze and food!!! maybe you could come up with a plan just in case and have it covered so your not worried about the what ifs?
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