So me&oh used to get along well with our neighbours & would have went into each others houses for drinks & stuff at wkends. Then one nite we had a poker nite with some of oH friends who dont like our neighbour so we didnt invite them. She hung over the fence anytime someone was out smoking & made it quite clear she would like to be invited in but we didnt. At the end of the day we wouldnt have been expected to be invited round when their friends were in. So she had been funny with me ever since & thats about March last year ago.
man neighbour is an aspiring DJ & got all the gear last christmas. He plays dance music constantly with the window open so as we are joined on we hear it plan as day but so do all the other neighbours. It was really annoying but we said nothing cause she was being funny anyway & didnt want to rock the boat. Until one saturday nite @ 4.30am when i had enough & went to the door. He said sorry & turned it down. Then they were both funny with us.
We had a world cup football party & the next week man neighbour said to OH he heard people in our garden talking about his religion offensively that nite. Oh said he was sorry & had ne known he would have told the people to shut up - Man neighbour said he knew it was neither of us. me & oh dont know if this actual;y happened as neither of us smoke & were not outside. So there is the possibilty he just wanted to complain because we had about his music a month earlier.
So they have both been really odd & off since & dont speak or wave which is very awkward as our drives are right beside each other & we often meet there.
His music started creeping up again until it was full whack - im talking tue nites @ 12.15am. Constant. So knowing we couldnt approach them i spoke to their landlord who we know anyway (we own our house but he kept the other to rent). He said he knew that man neighbour wasnt terribly pleasant and he would do a letter. This was a month ago.
Well the music volume was certainly turned down - but their aggression was turned up to maximum. I was out walking the dog the next week & they gave me the fingers! It did annoy me but I thought anyone who does that is a d**k and needs their head looked - only proof that we couldnt have gone to their door and talked to them in a civil manner.
So last nite I was driving up & she was leaving - she seen me, reversed back & waited on me to get out of the car and launched a whole tirade at me, calling me names, saying everyone knew what i was like, people in glass houses shouldnt throw stones, if anything like sat nite happens again shes ringing the police, saying i was a troublemaker going to the landlord & did another neighbour know i called her a whore & that i was a tramp! I looked at her, totally dumbfounded & said 'Everyone knows what IM like?' because really i speak to no one in our cul de sac after the way things went with them! And I asked her what happened on sat nite & she just kept ranting & raving - after calling me a tramp she drove off!
I was really shocked & felt like crying! OH had a poker nite on sat nite while i was out with the girls but i was home at 12 & there was no music or anything. The only noise was from people outside smoking & chatting but seriously it couldnt have been that loud. And everyone left at 1am so wasnt like an all nighter or anything. She has obviously just been waiting for something since she got the letter from landlord.
I rung the landlord & told him about all the abuse i had received from them - i made it clear that going to him has been a last resort as there was no talking to them & their actions have only proved me right. I said I dont want you to do anything about it but Im just letting you know the situation.
He told me he sent a solicitors letter with an official warning & it stated there had been several complaints to make it look like it wasnt just one person. He says she rung him & was really cross & demanded to know who had complained but he told her he couldnt tell her that & after several complaints a solicitors letter is standard practice - suppose it keeps him right in paperwork.
Well done if you have read all this - i feel sick at thought of goin home & possible seeing them. My OH is a total softie, hates confrontation etc. Im annoyed that im gettin everything from them - nothin has been said or done to him - and sat nite was his mates!
What would you do? Im just going to ignore them & if she yells at me again im going to pretend i cant hear her. Im also keeping a diary of everything, dates & times etc incase I do have to resort to the police.
***** i rang the council and they said they start proceedings with a letter - I think that would worsen things at the moment so they are goin to send me log sheets to fill in & then see about getting the device fitted some wkend.
I rang the police and told them about the situation & harrassment. They took all the details & gave me a log number. A the moment its for information purposes only. He said police could caution her but it could make things worse - which i know. So I am going to give her one more chance & if happens again then its a police caution. I havnt seen either since. I feel so much better just for doing something. Thanks for listening hitchers.*****