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Smiler08
Beginner August 2008

Nightmare wedding dress shop

Smiler08, 24 August, 2008 at 11:04 Posted on Planning 0 11

I bought my dress at The Wedding Room in Cuckfield in Sussex. It's a lovely dress, but when I got it I was told that it was made for girls wo were 5'10'' - I'm 5'4''. I was also told that all the alterations were included in the price. There was no mention of the price of any cleaning or anything like that.

I went for my fitting at the end of July and the dress was obviously way too long. It's got a really long train too and when we bought it, I said that I thought I'd want the train shortened because of my height. At that time she said it would be fine, but when I had the fitting, she said it would ruin the style of the dress. Then she told me it would cost £60 to steam the dress and more money for the alterations. I didn't want to make a fuss until I'd checked with my mum to make sure I'd got it right (that the alterations were included) and mum was sure too. I'd even written it down in my book so I asked her not to do any alterations until she heard back from me with confirmation. When we rang on the monday the alterations had already been done and she was going to charge us over £100 for them.

Mum was furious, because she's a seamstress and can easily do them. I've been home today and tried on the dress again. It's not the right length - in fact my mum's going to have to take it up by another 1 1/2 inches because I was tripping over it as I walked. The train was still really long, even though she said she was going to take it up and a loop hadn't been added as we'd also requested.

I mentioned this to my hairdresser and she wasn't at all surprised. She said 'if I had a pound for every bad story I heard about that shop...'

So that's my tale. Be very careful from buying from this shop. She told my mum that there was a sign in the changing rooms explaining all of the terms and conditions, which is convenient as most of the time I had a large meringue on my head and I certainly didn't have my reading glasses on. Mum asked why she didn't explain when she asked for payment, but she didn't come up with any good reason.

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Latest activity by Diamond Star Halo, 13 October, 2008 at 14:37
  • ebee
    Beginner January 2008
    ebee ·
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    What a nightmare - have you paid the extra money? If not definitely don't at this stage. I think I'd be contacted citizens advice or somewhere like that to see what your rights are as a consumer. It sounds very sneaky of them, and I'm sure they have to make sure you are aware of terms and conditions at the time of payment. ?

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  • Smiler08
    Beginner August 2008
    Smiler08 ·
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    I specifically asked her not to do any work until I'd had a chance to speak to my mum, but when we rang her back she was closed - the shop is always closed. When we rang back on monday. The work had already been done, so she only charged us half price and my mum kind of felt obliged to pay because the work had already been done. It was so cheeky.

    My mum's done the work now. It only took her 2 hours this morning. Aparantly it took the 'professional' seamstress 8 hours to make a complete mess of it.

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  • C
    Beginner June 2009
    catzmagic ·
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    I am so glad I read your post. I was thinking about going to this shop after seeing their Yell listing about "heavenly gowns at down to earth prices". One to strike from the list I think!

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  • K
    Beginner May 2009
    kezzybabe ·
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    How naughty of them to treat you like that.

    I am absolutely terrified of Bridal shops and have only set foot in 2,they intimidate me and i dont know why.Sure ly you should be given the option of taking your dress elsewhere for alterations as i dont like to be bullied into using there services when sometimes you can get just as good a service elsewhere for less money.

    I got my dress from Ebay brand new and my cousin(h2bs)is having a dress maker friend alter it for me at a very reasonable cost.

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  • KEG
    Beginner February 2009
    KEG ·
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    This really annoys me, people taking the shine off the dress buying experience. I had not good times when I was trawling the shop's for mine, getting mine made now.

    I would still contact Citizens Advice, just to see where you stand, I think she should'ent get away scott free after making a balls.

    Good job for your mum to save the day!!

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    Just to play devil's advocate and I don't know the shop in question but I'm a shop and if I had a pound for every time I hear "oh I thought alterations were in with the price" I wouldn't need to work!

    I have it clearly stated in my terms and conditions which the customer signs, and I have two signs, one in the changing room, and one beside the card machine where customers stand whilst paying. All this and people still say they didn't know, or they say that I had specifically said that alterations were free. I don't say that because they are not free!

    I'm not saying the shop are right but I'm just saying that other than stapling a piece of paper to their heads with the terms and conditions on, I don't know what more I can do! Could this be the same maybe?

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    Beginner December 2008
    Helen_744 ·
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    Sounds like a nightmare. Have a look on www.consumerdirect.gov.uk they might be able to offer some advice. If they messed up the dress and you had to get your mum to fix it, you never know you might be able to charge the shop for the work your mum did! Or take them to the small claims court. They deserve it for the amount of stress they put you through!

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  • Lynseys Designs
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    I don't think it is fair to expect a bride to read a sign as her head will be all over the place no doubt, I know mine was as I was so excited. When you get them to sign the terms and conditions I would have an extra part for them to initial or doubly sign the part about alternations and explain how much they are etc as well. Then you will actually have proof that they were told. I know you say they sign the terms and conditions but how many people have stood there and read every single word before signing as it's normally quite a long document.

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  • Lynseys Designs
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    Smiler what a nightmare but hopefully now your mum will sort everything out. I would check your paperwork to see what that says about alternations and then write a letter to the shop complaining.

    Lx

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  • teeheeyoucrazyguys!
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    Paperwork?????????

    <<think... There was an order form that I signed.... thats all the paperwork I got.

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    I wonder if that is standard practice then in a lot of places. I'd have thought getting the shops terms and conditions would have been included but obviously not.

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  • Diamond Star Halo
    Beginner October 2004
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    We have terms and conditions, in which it clearly states that alterations are not included in the price. We talk each customer through the terms and conditions when they order, then they sign two copies, one for us, and one for them. This is largely for our own protection (because although we always give people lots of info during appointments, they don't always remember some very important bits correctly), but also so that there's no confusion for the brides. Not all shops will be this formal though.

    I think where shops don't make it clear in writing what the situation is, it's wise for you to make sure you protect yourself. For example, if a shop has told you that alterations are included in the price, but hasn't put something in writing to that effect, then ask for it in writing. If it's a genuine offer, this shouldn't cause them a problem for them.

    Lynsey, although I agree that terms and conditions are generally a longish document, and customers may not read through them properly, people need to be aware that it's very important that they DO read what they're signing, and that they take responsibility for any consequences if they don't read them. I know that sometimes I place orders online, and I don't always read through the t&cs before I tick the box to say I've read them..... and it's entirely my own fault if something comes up that is in the terms and conditions which causes me a problem.

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