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Beginner February 2020

No Wedding Breakfast?

ExpensiveGreenStationery42353, 20 March, 2019 at 12:11 Posted on Planning 0 3

Hello! New to this website, this is my first post!

Just wondering what others think of the idea of not having a proper wedding breakfast at all. Our wedding is entirely an evening event, with the ceremony starting at 17.45. The suggested timeline we were given by our venue suggested that our reception would start around 21.00 in order to give time for a wedding breakfast in between. This seems far too late for us as we will have people travelling up to an hour just for the reception. With that in mind we have had the idea of taking our wedding party for a meal in a nearby restaurant before the ceremony actually starts, and then cutting out the after ceremony food altogether. We will still have cake in that time, and would possibly still put out a tiny buffet of fruit/cookies/snacks to go along with the cake. This way we could invite our reception guests to be there for about 19.30.

I know its not really traditional at all, but to be honest we are not traditional people at all! Just wondering what others think of the idea and whether you think it would work, doing it a bit backwards! Just seems a bit of a waste to have nothing to do for most of the day, and then rush through a ceremony, breakfast and reception all in the space of 6 hours, and have it be so late at night for half the guests.

Thanks for reading!

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Latest activity by SasenachBride, 5 April, 2019 at 11:03
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    Alisha.B ·
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    I think you would still need a buffet if your expecting people to be there for 7+ hours (getting ready time + an hour of driving then 5.45 - midnight?) but id do the buffet when all guests are there

    to be honest though its a bit odd having tiered guests at an all evening wedding id just invite everyone together

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    Rockstar June 2020
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    Personally speaking, as a wedding guest I would expect some kind of food. Weddings are expensive for guests by the time they’ve attended your hen/stag do, bought a wedding present, bought outfits, got hair, nails, tan done, getting there, drinks, accommodation, getting home again. They’re forking our a lot of money to come to your wedding and not getting a meal in return seems a bit mean to me.

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    Savvy August 2019
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    Yes I’d do away with tiered invite too and invite everyone to everything. Do away with the breakfast and just put on a buffet.

    a meal before could work... but are you really going to want to be chomping away in your dress before you get married? I wouldn’t...

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    Curious October 2019
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    Our wedding is similar in that our ceremony is at 17:30.

    We're having food but not a 'wedding breakfast' as such. We've got canapes after the ceremony around 18:00 and then a hog roast at 20:30

    We can only seat 80 guests for the ceremony so any additional evening guests will arrive from 19:00 and still be included in the hog roast.

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