I don't want to say 2013 has been a bad year, since I got married in September, which was the most amazing day, but other events haven't helped 2013s cause! I was made redundant in Feb, and have yet to find permanent employment, I had a 3 months contract, but that's been it. 2 days before the wedding H was made redundant, with the whole company going under, we both work in video games... Seems to be a risky business! Anyway, he has found a new job now, which is great, but a week ago he was in a lot if pain with one of his testicles hard and swollen (sorry if this is putting you off lunch!) he went to the docs straight away, has since had blood and chest X-rays, and has now had an operation scheduled for next Tuesday to have it removed. His blood tests and X-rays were 2 days ago, but we haven't been told the results yet and its playing on both of our minds so much. The consultants receptionist was told to tell him 'don't worry about the blood test markers' and that she will talk him through it all on Tuesday before the op, but how do we stop ourselves going crazy between now and then! Someone saying 'don't worry' but not telling you anything just hasn't helped. We haven't told anyone yet, but no our parents would want to know, but I know without actually knowing the results they are just going to be stuck in a stressful limbo like us, yet if we won't hear anything about them until the day of the op, we really need to tell them, as they obviously would want to know about him having the operation. To top it all off, he is due to start his new job on Monday! I'm supposed to be working on my portfolio and applying for jobs, but just have no motivation what-so-ever. Sorry for the ramble, I don't expect replies and I know I'm not much of a regular on here so don't 'know' you all that well, but just felt I might explode if I don't let some of the stress out!
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