Hi,
I was just wondering if anyone else wasn't having / didn't have a hen do?
Firstly I don't really like being the centre of attention and the thought of a typical hen do fill me with dread! My OH wasn't that bothered about having a stag do either - especially after what he heard his friends were planning!!
Instead he wanted to do a big joint 'sten-do' activity, meal and a few drinks but everyone around us kept trying to make it into a separate hen / stag at certain points i.e you can have a joint activity but then you have to split up.
Now we aren't having anything and a small part of me feel like I might be missing out - maybe on just a small meal or spa day but I feel like I can't suggest doing anything as that would undermine my OH saying he doesn't want a stag do and would be unfair considering all the hassle and grief he has had to deal with from his friends.
Has anyone else not bothered with a hen do and did you feel like you were missing out / did you regret it?
Any thoughts would be welcome