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Beginner October 2014

October 2014 Brides !

CoopsJ68, 31 December, 2013 at 12:12

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Apologies if already a thread on this but I've searched the forum and can't find one. Just wanted to say Hi to anyone else getting married in October 14 and see how plans are coming on. I think I've got a good few things done but may think differently when I see others comments ! Lol. I can't...

Apologies if already a thread on this but I've searched the forum and can't find one. Just wanted to say Hi to anyone else getting married in October 14 and see how plans are coming on. I think I've got a good few things done but may think differently when I see others comments ! Lol. I can't believe how quickly the tracker is counting down, we've been engaged just a year and that has flown by so I expect the next 9 / 10 months will do the same.

So , what have we sorted. Venue booked , Healds Hall Hotel. Everything being held there so includes a lot of things , food , dj etc. Registrar booked and confirmed. Gave notice on Friday 20th December so that should be all sorted in a week or so. Received the paperwork from Registrars re choosing our vows etc , that was exciting. Insurance done. Dress ordered , due in end of March. BMs dresses bought , bargains in the sale at House of Fraser. TOG booked , cake maker chosen but need to come up with some ideas. Been looking at flowers , think I'm going artificial then I can keep them afterwards. Colour scheme Navy / Ivory. Got a couple of Wedding Fairs coming up , one at our venue so that's good. The other one is at Leeds United Football ground. Going to look at suits then I think , my other half not a big suit wearer so think that might be a stressful one. Hire or Buy ?? That's the question. Decided not to book cars , tweaked the budget and decided to stay at the hotel the night before instead , cheaper option ! Lol.

Anyway, sorry to go on. Probably forgotten something we have already done in this list but would be interested to know how everyone else is getting on. I know I have one date twin already , CharlyJack :-)

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    Beginner October 2014
    racheybabez84 ·
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    Hi girls

    i'm the 18th of october

    so far we have -

    venue (dry)

    cake

    photographer

    horse and carriage

    mua - hair

    flowers

    registrar

    dj

    caterers

    bar

    dress, shoes, jewellery

    little bridesmaids and flower girls dresses

    invitations printed

    table decs and cloths

    chair covers and sashes

    still got to sort pageboys and grooms party suit and adult bridesmaids, tableplans ect

    i cant think of anything else, hows everyone else coming along

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    Beginner October 2014
    Oncloud9 ·
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    I am 3rd October, and have done so far:

    Church

    Hotel

    DJ

    Minister

    Cars

    Cake

    My dress, being ordered this weekend!

    Flowers

    Photographer

    Bus

    Kilts

    and honeymoon

    Still to organise make up and hair (soooo expensive), seeing a company this weekend re chair covers. Making our own centrepieces and favours, and just found a company that hire giant games (connect 4 etc) so will look into that for the reception. Save the dates are printed and just waiting for us to finish our website, then they will be posted. No ideas yet about invitation ideas.

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  • SillyWrong
    Beginner October 2014
    SillyWrong ·
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    Argh!

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  • Jojopug
    Beginner October 2014
    Jojopug ·
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    I'm 14th October, yet to meet my date twin Smiley sad

    So far i have:

    venue booked

    registrar booked

    dress purchased

    flower girl dresses purchased

    bridesmaid dresses is a sore point as have a pain in the arse MOH

    save the dates sent

    photobooth booked and paid for

    no need for transport or catering as all at the venue

    no dj as im having a jukeox

    my cousin is a pro photographer so thats kind of booked lol

    cake is being made by FMIL

    Invites currently being made by yours truly

    Honeymoon booked

    still lots to do and no clue!

    And last night had my first wedding disaster dream, this early?! that can't be right! Dreading any others!!

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  • SophiaKitty
    Beginner October 2014
    SophiaKitty ·
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    I am getting married on the 31st October, Its so nice to see how all you other bride to be's are getting on. (although makes me a little nervous that I am far to relaxed and should be doing something!)

    We got engaged in December 2012 and booked our ceremony venue and reception venue about 6 months ago now. Since the new year I have been cracking on so to speak and we have booked our DJ, I have bought my dress and we are handing in our notice at the end of Feb. I have also designed my save the date postcards and should be getting these printed shortly, next on my list is looking for a TOG that fits within our budget, looking for our rings and start designing my centrepieces and cake (I am a keen crafter and intend on making as much as I can myself, hence starting soon!).

    Hope you are all enjoying your planning x

    EDIT: forgot to say, our honeymoon is booked! (which I am very excited for - Florida then Vagas)

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    Beginner October 2014
    PurpleParsnip ·
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    Lots of planning sorted for us the last couple of weeks, we're 11th October. I went through a period of avoiding all things wedding, as I had lost motivation and was getting really annoyed with everyone and everything wedding related! I went to a wedding fair a couple of weeks ago which got me excited again ?

    So far we have:

    Church & venue

    Dress

    BM dresses

    Cars

    Hair & make up booked

    Photographer

    Videographer

    Cake my mum is making

    DJ

    We've started researching honeymoons and know where we're getting our rings from so am feeling slightly more organised now!

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  • BubblesKM
    Beginner October 2014
    BubblesKM ·
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    October 25th bride here!

    Venue booked

    band booked

    registrar booked

    venue dressing booked

    trying on a dress Saturday which I know I will get. Getting bridesmaid dresses Saturday too.

    honeymoon booked

    thats it so far...... Xxx

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    Beginner October 2014
    CoopsJ68 ·
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    Sounds like the October Brides Crew are getting on well with their planning ! I think since my original post I've booked cake and ordered flowers. Big wedding fair at Elland Road on Sunday so going to that. Although a lot of the stuff I won't be fussed with as already sorted. But as one of my BM's is now getting married too she will be :-) I think next on our list is to sort the men out. I think I said before my OH not really a suit person so should be fun. Some suit people at the fair so might get some ideas from there. And then I think it's rings ! I'm getting quite excited now and enjoying the planning , wishing for my dress to come in soon too ! But I think it will be end of March time.

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    Beginner October 2014
    CoopsJ68 ·
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    Forgot , and looking at invitations at the moment too , most people know when it is but guess I need to make it official !

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    Beginner October 2014
    Beeby2B ·
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    Hi!

    I'm an October 3rd bride too!

    We're getting married in Cyprus but then having a second reception when we get back so we can celebrate with all our friends and family that couldn't make it. So far I have dress, cakes (i'm having two), bridesmaids they're in pale grey with baby pink flowers - they're booked too, but artificial ones we will take to Cyprus. We have the food sorted, entertainment.Photographer.

    Most of it really it's just the little details left to do and my accessories.

    I have no idea about favors for Cyprus?

    What are you making for your centerpieces?

    x

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    Beginner October 2014
    Dizmoo ·
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    Hi

    im an October 4th bride!! We are getting married at Lickleyhead Castle in Aberdeenshire, Scotland. So far we have a dress, car, cake, flowers and a photographer booked but are struggling for someone to marry us!! We hope to organise a piper too. The jury is still out on the food!! The save the date cards are out and we have the castle for three nights as so many of my family are travelling a distance

    me and my future hubby met by chance on a buying, selling page on FACEBOOK,! Got engaged after 9 weeks and will be getting married a year and a week after we met. It's my second marriage and his first!! When you know it's right, it's right!

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  • Fcheeks
    Beginner October 2014
    Fcheeks ·
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    Same as us, both big rugby league fans and more likely with htb's leave, we're getting married 18th October, 2 days after our little ones birthday so he gets to be the boss of the sweetie table and a joint disco! Got our rings, venue, photographer, dress, centrepieces, bridesmaids and favours all sorted so feeling quite relaxed (for now!). Just need to DIY the invites to go out later this month Smiley smile

    Are any other brides having seasonal touches? Another of our reasons for our autumn wedding was the beautiful colours, autumn is such a beautiful season.

    x

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    Beginner October 2014
    Nicola_25 ·
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    Wow everybody's weddings sounds fabulous so far well done ladies Smiley smile We have done a few more things for the wedding now, we have ordered our wedding rings and we are about to send out the invitations. we have ordered a few tubs of sweets for our sweet table, bought some disposable cameras and tea lights and lots of other little things. Oh we have also changed our the time of our wedding to 1pm instead of 1.45 Smiley smile I haven't incorporated any autumn things into my wedding, it sounds like a wonderful idea but I have no idea what to do and what will go with my colour theme(dark purple/plum and ivory and silver ,any ideas?

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  • Fcheeks
    Beginner October 2014
    Fcheeks ·
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    Purple is a really autumnal colour Smiley smile would be easy to tie in eith your scheme if you wanted to! we're trying to keep it weddingy and glitzy but with a few natural rustic touches, thinking gold, deep reds, conkers in hurricane lanterns, hessian runners, gourds and berries in our arrangements.... nothing TOO themed but little seasonal touches because its our fave time of year. Oh and going to have toffee apples on the sweet buffet!

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    Beginner October 2014
    CoopsJ68 ·
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    Hi All , can't believe it's only just over 7 months to go now , the time is flying by. We've sorted another few things , ordered our rings ( very excited about that but missing having my engagement ring as it's gone off for the ring to be shaped ). Went to see a lady yesterday and ordered my headband , not really a tiara kind of girl so going for a double headband with pearls and crystals on , having it changed from the one I saw so hope I like it when it's done ! I think my most exciting thing is that we've ordered invitations and they should be here in the next week or so. We didn't send out save the dates , just told everyone when it was. So really looking forward to getting these and sending them out. I think when I see them in front of me it will feel very real :-) My dress due in at the end of March so looking forward to that now. I think I'll check the list today to see what else needs doing , feel like we've done lots but bet there is still plenty left to do. Suits nor sorted yet but plenty of time for them.

    Everyone else seems really organised , keep it up girls !

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    Beginner October 2014
    Nicola_25 ·
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    That all sounds lovely Fcheeks, you sound like you are very creative Smiley smile Coopsj68- You are right about the invitations, when we received our it made it seem very real! I am going to go wedding dress shopping on the 22nd March which now I am really looking forward to Smiley smile We still have to decide on where we are going for our little mini moon, we want to go somewhere that is in the UK, for maybe 3 or 4 days, I want somewhere really relaxing but also where there are lots of things to do, Any ideas? where are you all going?

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    Beginner October 2014
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    I'm also having purple bridesmaid dresses (plum), and the bouquets are going to be purple, cream and a touch of orange to give a bit of an autumn feel. Thinking purple & orange calla lillies with purple dhalias and orange & cream freesias with some berries. Some things along the lines of this:


    Love the toffee apple idea, might have to borrow that!

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  • Fcheeks
    Beginner October 2014
    Fcheeks ·
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    That bouquet is absolutely stunning! The colours are just beautiful

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    Beginner October 2014
    PurpleParsnip ·
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    I know, I fell in love as soon as I saw it ❤️

    Haven't picked a florist yet but the ones I have spoken to have given me suggestions to do it within my budget which makes me happy!

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  • Fcheeks
    Beginner October 2014
    Fcheeks ·
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    Aw thats great that they've been helpful with you and your budget, I swear some of them hear the 'W' word and upsell instantly! We have a fab florist at the bottom of our street but everytime I've called in with ideas I've hit a brick wall! Great talent, no people skills i think ha ha x

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    Beginner October 2014
    Sheldon ·
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    Hello October brides,

    We have just set our date and we too are getting married on 17th October ? look forward to hearing how your plans are getting on xx

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  • charliejack
    Beginner October 2014
    charliejack ·
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    Hi again sheldon, your venue looks lovely on the other thread x

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    Beginner October 2014
    Sheldon ·
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    Thank you, everyonesplans are coming along great, a few things are included in our package. Ordered save the dates today, need to give notice, book photographer, flowers, the list goes on. Main thing i need is a dress, shopping for that on saturday, hope i find one xx

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    Beginner October 2014
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    Hi brides...looks like I have a few date twins, I'm Oct 11th! Been quite organised the last couple of months but seem to have hit a lull now...mainly because funds are running out lol;-) so far though we have:-

    venue, dress, BM dresses, suits, photographer, honeymoon, cake, BM gifts, invitations, cars, guitarist and DJ!

    still lots to do and having a flower dilemma at the moment, can't decide whether to go real or artificial? Artificial seem so much cheaper but don't want it to look cheap, not sure how realistic they would be!

    got ideas for favours but can't really get them until we know exactly how many are coming so that will probs wait til nearer the time!

    cant believe how quick time is going.....so exciting although slightly worried about how much is left to do!!;-)

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    Beginner October 2014
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    Hi All , just a quick update. So excited this week as our invites arrived. I just need to prepare an insert for them, few bits of info to put on ( the dreaded gifts v money debate ) so that might take a while. But want to get them done and posted out. And had a phone call this morning to say my dress is in !!! So excited , I ordered on 2nd November and they said it would in around the end of March so a bit earlier. Going to book an appointment in the next few weeks with my BM's.

    Miezy83 - I went with artificial flowers but only because I'm not really a flower lover. They are foam flowers and the one's I've seen are very realistic. I used a site called 'The Brides Bouquet.co.uk'. They are on facebook too. Very good value.

    x

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    Beginner October 2014
    Sheldon ·
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    We have our appointment tomorrow with the photographer to see samples of her work and potentially book. I went dress shopping today found an amazing dress buts it too expensive in the shop. Searched on line but cant find it apparently its new 2014 so no where has it cheaper! Feeling like i need to hurry and find the dress!!! X

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  • VegasBride14
    Beginner October 2014
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    Hi ladies, I'm getting married on 11th October in Las Vegas! I can't believe it's only 7 months to go, time really is flying! x

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  • charliejack
    Beginner October 2014
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    Welcome and congrats!

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    Beginner October 2014
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    Same as us Smiley smile How are you getting on - apart from her dress and the bridesmaids bits I have done everything else - a bit like dont tell the bride ?

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  • VegasBride14
    Beginner October 2014
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    I'm pretty much all sorted now, just need to choose a veil and get a bridesmaid dress! x

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  • charliejack
    Beginner October 2014
    charliejack ·
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    Hi october brides!

    How are we all getting on? its 200 days today to my wedding on 17th. We have started on the invites and should have them done and out in a couple of weeks.

    hope everyone is getting on ok xx

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  • MrsCWB
    Beginner October 2014
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    YAY!! An October thread!!

    I am October 26th. Nice to meet you all Smiley laugh

    x

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