Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Arquard
Beginner May 2011

Ohhhh sooooo broody!

Arquard, 20 June, 2011 at 14:04

Posted on Off Topic Posts 74

Sorry for whinging but this is quite literally the only place I can get away with getting this off my chest. I'm absurdly broody. Lots of my friends are having babies and that's really not helping! I already have 3 kids and there's no way we could afford another baby just now even if H wasn't...

Sorry for whinging but this is quite literally the only place I can get away with getting this off my chest.

I'm absurdly broody. Lots of my friends are having babies and that's really not helping! I already have 3 kids and there's no way we could afford another baby just now even if H wasn't completely opposed to ever going through sleepless nights and dirty nappies again. I can't pin down why I want another baby; it's just that gnawing feeling that I do.

Anyone got any tips for how I can stop feeling like this?? It's making me sad.

74 replies

  • GeordieBarbie
    Beginner May 2010
    GeordieBarbie ·
    • Report
    • Hide content
    View quoted message

    Yep! We had a list...

    1. Have lots of holidays and see the world (done quite a lot, but of course still loads more to do)
    2. Pay off debts (done in 2008)
    3. Get married and have massive honeymoon (done in May 2010)
    4. Have a final "big" holiday (done in Sept 2010)
    5. Have £X in the bank (done!)

    We've been toegther 10 years this year so have done all our "couple" time. Mr GB was very broody but I wouldn't have a baby until I was married. Things happened faster than we thought and so 14 months after the wedding, we'll have a sprog! I did have a a "final big holiday" in the pipeline for our 1st anniversary ?

    • Reply
  • ebony_rose
    Genius
    ebony_rose ·
    • Report
    • Hide content

    I'm broody, and J is only 2 weeks old. Hoping it passes.

    I'd quite like to go through my labour and birth again though. At the time I asked OH to kill me, just to be rid of the pain, but i'd do it all again today if I could.

    • Reply
  • nanny plum
    Beginner September 2011
    nanny plum ·
    • Report
    • Hide content
    View quoted message

    I really hope it happens for you soon. I had got pregnant with the girls but after then had three treatments after dodgy smears which caused an erosion and a few other things,my OH had no children. I had no idea if it was me or him and he refused to do anything or see anyone. It was a really horrible time and pretty much ruined our sex life for ages. Anyway we gave up after three years and got on with the idea that he would never have any natural kids. Then another year down the road i felt some hot flushes and was late,completely thought i was having an early menopause. Never thought i would be pregnant. He is so appreciated and we both feel so lucky to have him.

    Everyone was always asking if we were trying and about age gaps etc but very few people knew until after we had him just how long it was. It can be a very lonely and frustrating experience.

    • Reply
  • freb2reh
    Beginner July 2011
    freb2reh ·
    • Report
    • Hide content

    Well I have something of a tribe from my previous marriage (5) and am undecided as to having anymore. A few things go against me, my age and the fact that i have had two ectopics! The first was treated medically but the second was a full on blue light surgery job, so only one side left! It is lovely now the youngest is 6 and more able to do things for himself. ie; get dressed, clean teeth. With the eldest being 17 I get a lot of pleasure watching her blossom, needless to say they all fill me with pride. If I am truly honest I am not sure I feel a huge desire to go back to square one, nappys, potty training, chicken pox yada yada yada. However, OH has never had children and I know for him it would be the icing on the cake so this may be the deciding factor but it would have to be fairly soon after we were married.

    Can't really help on TTC I was very fortunate. Didn't plan on having 5 though!

    Labour is hard work! But the euphoria of holding your baby for the first time is irreplaceable.

    Being a parent is tiring, demanding, stressful, challenging, rewarding, amusing, eternally expensive but completely worth it!

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×


Premium members

  • Q
    Qa Test I got married in August - 2022 North Yorkshire

General groups

Hitched article topics

Contest icon

Win £3,000 for your wedding

Join Hitched Rewards, where you can win £3,000 simply by planning your wedding with us. Start collecting entries, it's easy and free!

Enter now