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Nancy Noodles
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omg !! i need to rant !! probably long

Nancy Noodles, 27 March, 2012 at 16:48 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 10

I think its fair to say i hate my cousins girlfriend !!

Kanye West had her summed up when he wrote Golddigger !!!

She really thinks shes a cut above the rest ! control freak is a understatment for this women !!!

when i first met her she was a moo bag , so i kept my distance ,we got married in 2010 and my cousin M was an usher ,which to me ment he would wear the same suit as the groomsmen , oh no she didnt want that , she wanted him to buy a proper suit so he could wear it to her family wedding the next week , he ignored H right up untill the day before the wedding when the girlfriend G text my mum and said what do you want M to do today!! by that point it was way to late he didnt even have a suit because he ignored the texts with times and dates for the fittings ! We didnt even get a card from them (even though M gets paid thousands a week) but they was quite happy to sit and eat and drink on us all night !!

After the wedding they found out G was pregnant and she turned into lady muck , any family BBQs or get togethers the attention had to be on her or she would either strop or flounce off!! she insisted that they had to have the most expensive baby equipment and top named stuff ,she had a baby shower and on the invite she wrote "please no mothercare or babies r us"!! i must have looked a right commoner to her seeing most of my baby stuff is mothercare . once the baby was born it got even worse , now she strolls round the place acting like she owns it !! It feels like she looks down on us common foke because she has more money than we do! On Ms last birthday , they went round to see my grandparents for his birthday , she sat with her purse open whilst M opened his birthday cards waiting for the money out of them!!

To make things worse ,they havent asked my brother to be god father to the baby , even though my brother and M grew up together and always promised each other they would be god father to each others kids !! My brother is VERY hurt over this, he wont even go to the christening or there wedding because of it and too be fair i totally understand why !! Last week i saw her whilst i was with my grandma and i couldnt shut her up talking about babies and stuff , she seemed to be really nice to me ,being interested in my pregnancy but it was all false !!

She lives a few roads up from me , so when i take my boys to school i walk past her house and see her sitting on her back side whilst M runs round after her !! M has to ask her permission to breath!

So fast forward to this afternoon i was walking home from the school with my boys , just about to walk past her house and she swings round the corner in her car and i had to practically pull my boys out of her way to stop her hitting them !! i was so upset she didnt even say sorry , she totally ignored me ,it was like i was totally invisable to her , that was the straw that broke the camels back , ive totally had it with her now !!

sorry to go on ,but this has been a long time coming !! no need to reply !!

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Latest activity by Nancy Noodles, 27 March, 2012 at 18:13
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    I dont really get what she has done wrong? It seems, from reading your post that you resent her because she has more money than you? Just the way I've read it though.

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  • Nancy Noodles
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    No its not the money at all , shes a pain in the arse !!!

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  • Helenia
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    Did she actually see you this afternoon? It sounds like she might not have done, which is stupid of her, but not necessarily malicious.

    Also, you don't need to put a space before your (multiple) exclamation marks [/grammar pedant]

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  • Storky
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    You're right to be cross at her lack of care when driving but the rest sounds like sour grapes to me, I'm afraid. So what if they have more money/don't shop at Mothercare/she wears the trousers in their relationship? Don't let it bother you, it's their choice to live that lifestyle, it doesn't need to affect you.

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  • ForTheLoveOfMrsBrown
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    Agree with first and last point...but...it IS pretty rude to write "No Mothercare" on an invitation to a baby shower ?

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  • Storky
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    It's pretty rude to mention any sort of gift for a baby shower but I didn't think my blood pressure could cope with wedding gift lists creeping over into other areas of life...

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  • ForTheLoveOfMrsBrown
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    Smiley smile

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  • Vee Tee
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    She sounds like a spoilt cowbag, but its not worth worrying about.

    Your brother has to get over not getting to be godfather. Your cousin can't swear to honour this godfather deal, the mother of the child was always going to get a say in it. Sounds like this is the kind of woman who will insist on making all those decisions...but if your cousin's happy then let him be a happy fool

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    Hi thanks for your replys ,

    just to answer a few , i dont believe its sour grapes , we earn more than cousin and his girlfriend but we chose mothercare because we believed we didnt have to spend hundreds on things that where just as good but cheaper . unfortunatly this afternoons event had only just happened so i rambled a bit and probably didnt explain my self properly! , also this afternoon she did see me and my boys , we made i contact , i know she would never have intentionally tried to hurt the kids , but an apology wouldnt have gone a miss , i hope that explains a bit more .

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    Sorry i ment in the OP that at the time she had more money than us

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