OMG what am I supposed to do about this cake lol! **flashy**

Yes it would definitely look better without all the fiddly bits on. Can you show them a plain(ish) picture of one you like and as them to replicate it maybe?

The swags around the bottom are potentially hiding the rough edges on the cake. I would suggest taking some ribbon to wrap aroung the bottom. Ribbon and your cake topper would be more than enough I would think.

Good idea about the ribbon :-) I think I'll take some out and match with the bridesmaids dresses. I'd love to have just a plain round cake, we've bought our own bride and groom to sit on the edge but can decide on the day whether to take them or not.

I might have a chat with the wedding co-ordinator when we get out there see if we can have a plain round cake, square would be fine but no fussy bits - think the cake decorator would be quite pleased about not having to do fussy bits! x

Defo go without the frills and agree about the ribbon.

Hubby and I got married in Thailand, just the 2 of us and then when we got home a week later, we did it all again with everyone there, a church, reception etc! Anyway, I wanted to share with you our Thai wedding cake which was mega garish to say the least but it tasted amazing, like no other cake I have had before (or after!).

I hope seeing mine makes you feel better about yours ?

Aww dear lol! There must be an unsaid rule about wedding cakes abroad to make them as fussy as possible. At least you had a lovely wedding and the cake isn't really that important, I just want to be prepared for it! x

*cough*..... Its erm....very nice ?

I think taking a flower or ribbon to match the BM's is a good idea, or you could ask if they have a stand to put it on to raise it up a bit. think of it as part of the experience of being married abroad - its not like any wedding cake i've seen before lol. and taking ur own toppers is a good idea too.

I've ordered a cake topper and will get some ribbon or something similar to go around the base just incase. I might email the hotel or take print outs of plain cakes with me to show the wedding planner how plain I mean! I doubt they'd start making the cake until I got out there (the wedding will be a week after we arrive so hopefully should have time to sort it out!)

Thankfully we're not taking it home with us! x

I didnt have a "proper" wedding cake abroad, I made up for it when I got back....

I'd ask them to leave the topper off and just have it plain with ribbon, and take your own topper! x