I am totally and utterley bored at work for 2 hours to go until i finish to go on my hen do!! Wooooo hooooo so excited
Anyway, I have 3 BMs - SIL to be, my oldest friend and my best mate. Love all three of them and have a good relationship with SIL to be but really only choice her as a BM coz i didnt want her to feel left out (her partner is an usher and her 2 boys are paige boys) anyway since i asked her we have become a lot closer.
She has really really surprised me at how much thought, time and effort she is putting into our wedding. Way more than i would ever expect or hope. Taking some of the planning out of my hands, co ordinatong hotels for me for the wedding and sorting the hen do completly.
I had never planned to have a chief BM coz i dont really see the point (they dont actually do anything different do theY????) but we are off on hen do this weekend and whilst i obviously dont know the details, i know she has planned lots of things coz everyone has been telling me that she has gone to alot of effort. So, i thought that it would be a nice gesture to ask her to be Chief whilst we are away as a token of how much i appreciate her help.
Do you think it is a good idea? A bit naff ? do you think it might upset my other BMs who realistically i am closer to?
I want to stress that they have not been unhelpful but one has been in Oz for a year (returned yesterday) and the other lives 4 hour drive away.
WWYD?
