OT - A bit down today [:(]

Aww big ?

It is sucky I had my own little moan the other week so know how you feel, you know she will be with you on the day, and happy as anything that you have found some one special. I have found writing all the wedding plans down in a letter type thing has helpped with the whole not really being there thing.

Thanks - am ok, although fully expect to have some tears on the day about her, it's just a massive shame (understatment).

Hugs for you too!

? aw chick, i know exactly how you feel...

just remember she wouldnt want you to be sad in the run up to your big day, she would be happy and excited to see you so happy and ready to start your new married life, so give her a wee thought and a smile and try not to let the emotions overwhelm you xxxx

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Thanks all - am doing my best. Still can't get over how long its been.

? I know, it's horrible. I was always really really close to my grandparents and every so often I just get overwhelmed by how sad it is that they won't be there even though I'm sure they will both be there in spirit. 2 days after the wedding it will be 2 years since we lost my Grnadma and it's 13 years since we lost my grandad. I think these occasions do make it hit home but when I get upset I just try and remember all the good stuff and smile

Aw i thik you have every right to have a moan. Just to let you know im thinking of you. When my mum got married she hadnt her mum there as she had passed away just before she met my dad. I think that its only now as she helps plan mine, that she sees the mother daughter thing she didnt have. But she will be with you on your day in your heart and in spirit around you.

? How about wearing something of your mothers, or having one of her hankies (not sure if she was a hankie person). I would have a nice picture of her with you or by the side of the cake as to have her there iyswim.

I'm going to be wearing my Mum's pearl necklace and earrings as my something old, which will help a lot I think! ?

Aww sorry youre feeling down. Thats nice that you'll be wearing something of her's though. Lots of love xxx

? Sorry you are feeling down.

xx