Okay i have just got home from seeing my friend who got married this july. and she's told me she's cheating on her OH and has been since about October...
She's always had a fairly *elastic* idea of fidelity and while she knew I though this was a bad idea before she got married, I think it's even worse now she's married.
She's really unhappy and although I think cheating on her OH is a v. bad idea - I just actually feel really sad for her. She just feels completely trapped by her OH and is infatuated with another guy - and she's met his parents and his work mates but he has no idea she's married.
I just want to be a good friend to her and support her - I don't want to be completely black and white - she knows I think what she's doing is wrong, but that's not helpful.
Does anyone have any advice? And please, don't all write in saying what a b*tch she is to do this to her OH....it's not helpful to me or her.
Thanks
SG45