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*Marmite*
Beginner October 2011

O/t Anyone else spending Valentines alone?

*Marmite*, 14 February, 2011 at 21:21 Posted on Planning 0 20

My OH is away on business til Wednesday so I'm spending Valentines alone with a bottle of wine and my cat!! I know it's only one day, but it's still a shame as this is our one and only Valentines as an engaged couple. Anyone else not spending Valentines with their H2B?

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Latest activity by prettyisabellaa, 16 February, 2011 at 03:07
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    Beginner April 2012
    Lu_Duth ·
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    Me! Smiley sad

    my H2B works offshore so he has been away a month! due back on the 21st. He is always away for valentines day, except for one. He always spoils me though, i got a me to you teddy, a card and a dozen red roses delivered this afternoon!

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  • Rebecca86
    Beginner July 2012
    Rebecca86 ·
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    Kinda me.....OH is showing his love to his PS3 and GT(stupid)5

    i'm sure that counts ?

    Good Job i have Hitched lol

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  • *Marmite*
    Beginner October 2011
    *Marmite* ·
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    Aw that's sweet! I got flowers from him on Saturday, including a dozen red roses which was nice cos I've never had that before! My OH is only away for two nights and that's bad enough so I can't even imagine what it's like for you for a month! X

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  • Philippa_1
    Beginner August 2011
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    Me 2, My OH is at work till 9.45 so he will be back soon but i have being on my own all day well with my 2 sons

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  • tinks269
    Beginner February 2011
    tinks269 ·
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    My OH decided this was the perfect weekend to have his stag so I havent seen him since Thursday night. Having said that he is due back at about 10.15 and I did get a dozen roses and a box of chocolates delivered. Bless him he obviously has not grasped that wedding bootcamp does not allow me to eat chocolate.

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    Beginner April 2012
    Lu_Duth ·
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    Aww well asleast you got your flowers then!

    im used to it now to be honest, it has always been like this. He gets home for a month but he works 7 days at a farm to get extra money for the wedding. I miss him really badly just now, but when he gets home, im happy and then give him a week before he is getting under my feet and by the end of his month home, i am glad to get rid of him for a little while! lol that sounds bad doesnt it? i like my space and so does he, we speak everyday and i appreciate him more because i treasure our times we have together.

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  • NikiST
    Beginner July 2011
    NikiST ·
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    I'm all alone and have been all day. H2B left before I woke this morning.. left no card or anything.. not even a note.. and isn't home until Wednesday morning. ☹️

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  • kirstycat
    Beginner April 2011
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    Might as well be - there's football on the telly!

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  • Rebecca86
    Beginner July 2012
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    I know the feeling is your OH a Fulham or Chelsea fan?

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    WhiteSparkles ·
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    Me! My OH lives in Dubai ☹️ We had a Skype Date at 4pm though and opened cards/pressies so that was fun. Then I had an early dinner with our baby girl- there's nobody else I would rather spend the night with! But she was in bed at 7pm so all alone now- good to see I'm not alone being alone though!

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    Beginner November 2011
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    My OH is in LA, until Saturday Smiley sad has been for little over 2wks, this is our first 'separation' and it has hit me soooooooooo hard. I did fly over wk past friday and spent 2nights with him flying home last monday. I got 1dozen long stemmed red roses delivered on Friday (because we weren't sure if i was going to be a work today or not, and i had to wait in on friday for an engineer anyway) and whilst i was in LA OH bought something in Pandora and Tiffany - he said i could bring them back with me, but i knew i wouldnt keep them till today......so this morning 10 (short stemmed) red roses arrived Smiley smile but i'd rather he was here Smiley sad

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  • celticgoddess
    Beginner March 2012
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    Im alone too as we dont live together yet, but he did say tonight he thinks we are just wasting time so we are gonna talk about it at the weekend.....i got a gorgeous fiancee card today....i told him not to buy me anything as its my birthday next week and its too much to spend doing both, id rather be spoiled for my birthday as theyre a big deal to me....so thats the plan....it is our first valentines as an engaged couple but im sure there will be many more so im not bothered im alone, its quite nice actually as my kids arent here either, total peace and i get the remote!!!

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  • Purple Pixie
    Beginner July 2012
    Purple Pixie ·
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    Can I join the club? My OH is away with work too. I'm not technically alone as my 2 boys are in bed but it's still not the same.

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  • *Marmite*
    Beginner October 2011
    *Marmite* ·
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    In the nicest possible way, it does make me feel better than I'm not the only one off doing something romantic! Anyone else doing something another day instead? We're going out for a meal Thursday night instead. Gonna go have (posh) pizza-yum! X

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    Beginner August 2012
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    Me too.... OH away on business ... away all week and has been for the past two weeks too... poor us ☹️ but I did get some roses and a lovely card... so all is forgiven haha

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  • kirstycat
    Beginner April 2011
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    Neither! He will watch any football going - it doesn't seem to matter who it is that's playing

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  • LuLu_x
    Beginner May 2012
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    Im working nightshift tonite so spending my Valentines night with 2 guys work with Smiley sad havent even seen the OH today as he finished work at 10 and i started work at 7! x

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    Beginner September 2011
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    Yep! And fulham didn't win...

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    prettyisabellaa ·
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    Me! (( but it is me that have to work, so i can not spend the romantic night wiht him, i feel very sorry but is okay we still have a lot of valentines to come!

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