Got a phone call this morning from MIL2B. I knew straight away something was wrong. Her lines were 'Right Emma I've got something to tell you but I want you to promise not to tell Adam.' Adam is my other half who has been away on deployment since January with the navy. I promise thinking its nothing major and then I get the shocking news that FIL2B is in hospital because he has had 2 heart attacks.
All day at work I've been thinking about it and getting upset. Adam has called me a few times today asking if everything is alright because he knows I am lying. I dont want to lie to him about something as big as this. God forbid if anything happened he would hate me for not saying.
So I decided to ring MIL2B to see how he is getting on. His blood preasure rocketed up earlier on so they put him on beater blocks. Guess he is just scared about what is going to happen. He is a large man who drinks way too much but really does have a heart of gold. I said to MIL2B that Adam would be really upset if he found out that something like this has gone on and we havent told him. She has said to wait and see what the doctor says tomorrow as to weather we should tell him.
Im just after your opinion really. If you were in my shoes would you tell your other half? I feel like its such a big thing for her to ask me not to say. I know he is in the middle of the sea but Im sure if the navy found out they would bring him home early - he only has 4 weeks left of his deployment anyway.
Just after a bit of advice really because right now I dont know what to do.
Thanks for your time.
Emma Louise x
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