I was out with a friend the other day and we were just talking about the wedding and I was saying how I'm doing a lot of the planning on my own and then she told me she thought my H2B was really selfish and then went on to list all the reasons why, completely unprovoked.
I just feel like this is really inappropriate - I'm about to marry this man, and I know he has his flaws but I really don't think it was her place to remark upon them, unasked.
I'm confused, I do feel like she's overstepped the mark because ok, sometimes I do moan about M to her but I've never asked her opinion on him, sometimes I just need to vent.
If the shoe was on the other foot and a friend was moaning about her OH I would be sympathetic but not attack her partner as it's not my place.
Am I right in thinking she has overstepped the mark?