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OT OH driving me insane!

WeddingPrincess, 17 August, 2009 at 21:20 Posted on Planning 0 2

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Just need to vent a little and would maybe appreciate some opinions to see if I am overreacting...

It is one of our male friends birthday party this weekend and I have just found out (only because i overheard OH on the phone plotting!) that my lovely h2b and all his friends are planning on getting him a stripper! This would all be well and good, I am no prude and appreciate that boys will be boys and all that but the thing is that the friend in question is one of by best friends (and also BM) boyfriend!

The party is a family party and so all his family and friends including his adoring gf will be there when this stripper turns up! I think this is totally disrespectful to his gf and I know that i definitely wouldnt appreciate it! (especially as she has arranged the whole thing and is even decorating the room for him in advance!)

OH is now telling me that I am being completely ridiculous and that only me would be offended!

Arrrrggghhhh

It may be me overreacting but i would appreciate some perspective please girls!

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Spring · 17 August, 2009 at 21:25
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Only you know your friend so how do you think she would feel? You seem to mention how you would feel if this happened.

FWIW my friend actually booked a stripper for her OH's birthday. Was quite funny actually. The routine is not as 'sexy' as you might think.
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Little.Miss-Scatterbrain · 17 August, 2009 at 21:26
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I think strippers are strippers and just a laugh if thats the sort of thing hed be into. i think the fact that all the family are going to be there (im guessing this includes his parents, aunties etc.) perhaps makes it rather distasteful and is maybe better kept for a lads night out. will his girlfriend be offended do you think?

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WeddingPrincess · 17 August, 2009 at 21:36
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She will definitely be offended....she is not a fan of that sort of thing. I said to OH that if it was before the party or on a lads night out then it wouldnt be a problem. There will be alot of family there (grandmas, aunties etc) and i just think its a little bit in bad taste.

I wouldnt like it but thats just me i guess, I just feel bad that she is putting in all this effort decorating and getting baby pics together and things and I just know that it will cause an issue......

Ive actually just realised that I dont know why were arguing about this...lol

Perhaps I am overreacting.....maybe....just a little....wont tell OH just yet tho. Let him stew!

Thanks girls

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