What are you going to do for your 30th? If it's before the wedding, are you having the dilemna of not really being able to afford to do anything?
My 30th is in May and we get married in August. There is no way we can afford to do anything grand, but I keep getting asked if I am having a party or if h2b is taking me away, and feel like I have to do something different to the normal birthday celebrations. All I think we'll be able to afford is a meal out somewhere and that's what we always do!