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Sherrie H
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o/t Tommorow we say goodbye

Sherrie H, 25 September, 2008 at 18:13 Posted on Planning 0 32
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To my lovely , Brave SIL. It is her funeral tomorrow and I am dreading it. I have been going over & over the reading I am doing, today to try & do it without crying.

It will be so hard to say goodbye but I know she is at peace now after all the suffering & pain.

RIP Elaine xx

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Latest activity by selder, 26 September, 2008 at 21:19
  • ashmegdj
    Beginner August 2009
    ashmegdj ·
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    Thinking of you Sherrie

    Think of all the good times you shared and take comfort from your family and friends at this sad time.

    Jo ?

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  • prettywild
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    I really will be thinking of you Sherrie. x

    No one can ever take away the good memories though, they'll stay with you forever. xxx

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  • teeheeyoucrazyguys!
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    ....its okay to cry. Sure, you'll want to do the reading without breaking down but if you do...just take a big breath, look up and carry on when you are ready.

    Will be thinking of you and family x

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  • lisaloulou
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    Oh Sher. I was thinking about you today as I wasn't sure if it was today or tomorrow. You'll do her proud with your reading I'm sure. xxx

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  • Lynseys Designs
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    Sherrie I've been thinking about you this week and wish you all the best for tomorrow and hope you can remember a few happy memories tomorrow whilst having to deal with such a sad time.

    My thoughts are with you all.

    Lx

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  • flowergem4u
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    I'll be thinking of you too sher....

    r.i.p elaine

    linda x

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  • Mel_ODrama
    Beginner August 2008
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    Lots of "stay strong" vibes from here.

    Thinking of you

    Mel

    x

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  • ruthy_wuthy
    Beginner September 2009
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    Thinking of you Sherrie.

    I don't really have the words..other than, I hope you can stay strong and keeps all your memories close to your heart.

    xxxxx

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  • bluewater
    Beginner August 2009
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    Thinking of you sherry. xxx

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  • M
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    Don't envy you one bit for tomorrow - what a hard task for you. Will be thinking of you and hope everything goes well as you say goodbye to your dear Elaine.
    xx

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  • sarahjane82
    Beginner September 2011
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    Thinking of you Sherrie, im sure you will do Elanie proud tomorrow and as others have said, it really doesnt matter if you do cry, the thought you have put in to doing the reading for her is what matters xx

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  • Snow Patroller
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    She'll be with you Sherrie - be strong and take comfort that she's in a place without pain and suffering. I'm not a religious person but I truely believe that folk don't just fade away - she's with you and always will be.

    Nothing else matters.

    Leigh x

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  • Ellie_S
    Beginner March 2012
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    Thinking of you Sherrie (hugs)

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  • Laura_Lee
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    Thinking of you for tomorrow Sherrie. xx

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  • F
    Beginner October 2008
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    Thinking of you tomorrow sherrie ?

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  • Sherrie H
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    Sherrie H ·
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    Thanjk you all.

    I am so tired but just can't sleep tonight.

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  • M
    Beginner September 2007
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    Oh Sherrie, my thoughts will be with you and all of your family tomorrow. Big hugs to you x

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  • INeverThought
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    Celebrate the life an times you had with Elaine savour every moment and smile... she would not want you to be sad... i hope the day goes well for you..

    RIP Elaine

    Nic x

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  • bernie@ floralpride
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    Remember the good times and laugh over the silly ones, Elaine will be with you forever in your heart.

    Thinking of you today.

    Bernie

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  • diamondsragirlsbestfriend!
    Beginner May 2008
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    Hope all goes well Sherrie. Thinking of you.

    Cx

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  • diamondsragirlsbestfriend!
    Beginner May 2008
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    Hope all goes well Sherrie. Thinking of you.

    Cx

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  • crafty em
    Beginner June 2008
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    Thinking of you and your family today sherrie, hope everything goes well.

    Em xx

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  • Duck no more
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    Thinking of Sherrie , hope all goes as well as it can in such a situation.

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  • gemmaw
    Beginner February 2009
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    Hi Sherrie,

    Dont really know you that well as not been posting for long - but have seen a couple of your threads and just wanted to say that I truely hope everything goes as well as it can.

    lots of good wishes from me!

    Gem x?

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    Will be thinking of you and your family, sherrie ?

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  • Braw Wee Chanter
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    Oh Sherrie, I'm sorry you're all going through this. She sounds like a geat SIL and Ihope when today is over you are left with lots of happy memories of the life she had and the times you spent together.

    R.I.P Lovely Elaine.

    x

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  • French-Fancy
    Beginner September 2008
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    Hope it goes as well as it can Sherrie - thinking of you.

    xxx

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  • Jackiepatch
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    Thinking of you, hope it all went well

    Jackie

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    Beginner August 2010
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    thought of you at your sad time today, hope you could mannage to say goodbye to your friend/sister in law Elaine the way that you wanted to today, hope you had the strength to get through your reading, i know that many people on here have respect for you as you always seen to be there with advice for all of us crazy wedding women on here.

    hope you and your family find the strength to pull together at this sad time and think of all the happy times you have had with your sister in law.

    although lost never forgotten.

    louise

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  • Sherrie H
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    I did it. It was the most beautiful service I have ever been to. The whole crematorium was packed & they were standing outside were over 300 people there. Everywhere was a sea of yellow her favouriste colour & each of us carried a single yellow rose to place on the coffin.
    I did the reading & managed to get through it all. The hardest part was being in the car behind the hearse all the way but she had the most wonderful send off & we all went back to the Social Club and her brothers had put together her life story to cine films & pics that they had collected over the years. We also raised over £4000 for Marie Curie in her Memory.

    She was a fabulous lady & more like a sister I will miss her deeply but she will always be in my heart.

    Thank you so much for all the emails & messages they are a great comfort.

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  • Mel_ODrama
    Beginner August 2008
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    Oh Sherrie that sounds a lovely tribute to her.

    Well done all of you

    x

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  • Lynseys Designs
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    Sounds like the perfect goodbye Sherrie and I'm sure she is glad to be free of the pain and thanking you all for such a lovely send off.

    Lx

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