Other than Trickers

Google it ?

I figured it was something like that from the SM but got totally confused by the D, so thought it was something from 50 Shades lol (I've not read the books) x

I've only had one other relationship before my OH, and there's no way we'd have got married, ever. He was very anti-relationship - he only called himself my boyfriend when I sobbed and begged him to because I hated just being friends with benefits. We weren't even friends, really - I tended to pour my heart out, and he'd give nothing back. His solution to everything was a quick bonk. I would be miserable and self loathing if I was still with him.

Depressing to even think about that. So glad I found OH ?

One word would sum it up = Bored!

He was nice enough, but a total sap. No umph, no get up and go, no drive or motivation. We plodded through life together for 4 years, managing to get married on the way. If I had a tantrum and was totally unreasonable (which does happen) he would just sit and agree with me and apologise. It was just boring.